klohe Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 what's enough for ur guy/girl to do to make u jealous??? would chattin with ppl and harmless flirtin do the trick...or more actual physical contact??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 Obviously more physical shit...nah flirting wouldn't bother me b/c I do it. I mean you can't have a double standard... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 It depends on what kind of mood I'm in... sometimes I can't stand it even to see my guy looking at another woman... other times it's like "oh so you pinched her ass, big deal!" But generally I'm ok as long as I'm getting at least as much attention as he's paying to the other females. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluegirl Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 actually i am not jealous at allits weird cause most people say they dont want someone whose jealousbut i feel that men really dont like the fact that i dont get botheredi just look at itif they want to be with me then they willand if they want to cheat or be with someone else then they willgetting upset wont change thatonly pull u two apart Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magilicuti Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 if she seems interested or gives out a vibe she's interested in another guy it kinda bothers me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 Originally posted by glowdancer its weird cause most people say they dont want someone whose jealousbut i feel that men really dont like the fact that i dont get botheredI can totally see that- when someone's too jealous they turn into a control freak, but it would drive me insane if my guy *never* got jealous... it's normal to feel threatened if you think you could lose something close to you, I would feel like maybe he just didn't care enough. And knowing me I'd probably take it to the limit and turn into a horrible flirt just to get a rise out of him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 Originally posted by glowdancer actually i am not jealous at allits weird cause most people say they dont want someone whose jealousbut i feel that men really dont like the fact that i dont get botherediI agree with you here. I used to be the same way in regards to being bothered if my man wasnt showing jealousy...and maybe I still am b/c I am not in any relationships. But when I was, I kind of liked the guy being jealous. Why? b/c for some odd reason it showed me that he cared and shit.. Yeah I know its sick to think liek that but I did. Hopefully in my next relationship I wont think the same Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxigirl Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 i feel that if a guy doesn't show that he's jealous, then it seems as if he really doesn't care. i actually like it when a guy gets jealous, it's pretty cute Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluegirl Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 Originally posted by sexxigirl i feel that if a guy doesn't show that he's jealous, then it seems as if he really doesn't care. i actually like it when a guy gets jealous, it's pretty cute actually i dont think a person's jealousy is necessarily a reflection on how much they care about urather a reflection on themselves on how secure they arei have noticed the men who i date that are very secure and confident are not jealous Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxigirl Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 Originally posted by glowdancer actually i dont think a person's jealousy is necessarily a reflection on how much they care about urather a reflection on themselves on how secure they arei have noticed the men who i date that are very secure and confident are not jealous i will have to agree with you, jealousy is a reflection on how secure someone is;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gambitrah Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 when there is physical contact more then a handshake or a pat on the shoulder i get pretty upset...anything like that and ill make a scene flirting is ok..we all do it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaligirl Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 There is nothing more I hate than a jealous man. It annoys me so much to constantly hear, where are u going, what are u doing, who are u going with. Uhhhhh...... And then those countless amounts of calls or pages to check up. Or what about when u are out together and another guy looks at you and your man is already to fight and shit. I mean shouldn't that be a compliment to him. I don't know about the rest of you guys and girlies but a jealous b/f or g/f sucks!!I don't think that alot of people understand the meaning or TRUST!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
klohe Posted January 9 Author Report Share Posted January 9 Originally posted by sexxigirl i feel that if a guy doesn't show that he's jealous, then it seems as if he really doesn't care. i actually like it when a guy gets jealous, it's pretty cute yeah sometimes...but most of the time it's annoying...especially when there really isn't any just cause Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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