aboyfrombklyn Posted March 7 Report Share Posted March 7 If so, why? Now, I know a lot of people may be afraid to admit this, but can you at least give a reason why YOU might cheat??Me? Never cheated. Never will. There's no good enough reason. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sparklez929 Posted March 7 Report Share Posted March 7 If you are with someone whom is not important enough to you where you would find yourself cheating... There's no reason why you should be with them in the first place... I keep telling my bestest friend that, b/c she's been cheating on her b/f for like ever... But she claim's she's too used to being with her current b/f... and that it would break HIS heart if she broke up with him..??? <---And you guys thought I was mean....I hate to say this, but I would rather get cheated on, then be the cheater... I believe feeling guilty for ruining a relationship I cared for, would be much worse then accepting being cheated on... Sound's sick, I know... but think about it... The angel on my shoulder is far bigger then the devil on my other one... I would feel too bad... And that would eat at me... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
synderella420 Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 I was with my ex for 5 and a half years and I never cheated...It just makes you feel like a better person knowing you avoided the temptation..you know all the temptation I have overcome by not cheating..it makes you a stronger and more stable person..I could never look into the eyes of someone I love if I cheated..To me people who do that are so selfish... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blazinhot Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 Well I don't care to admit it but Yes I have cheated. I think the reason was because I had just started college, things were all new to me and I was finally willing to live the 'free-spirited' life, when in fact it just ties you more down. Having 1 boyfirend is hard enough to keep happy, having 2 is just too much. I have yet to figure stuff out too, damn, this probably isn't the best thing to post! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 Yes...it didn't matter, I had no feelings for the guy I was supposedly with anyways. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goddessoflove Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 I've got no partner but I've never cheated on anyone. R-E-S-P-E-C-T, for myself and my man. Never will either, would def break up with him first. XO,G Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sum12nv Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 i only cheated on my very first bf when i was 18 yrs old, only AFTER i found his incriminating Cancun photos from spring break ---- had to play that mother f*cker out and yes i understand how spring breakers are b/c i was down there too, yet i was VERY faithful2nd ex-bf --- never cheatedcurrent bf --- never cheated nor would i ever have the desire to Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fluidnyc Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 One time me and my friends renting a hotel room in seaside, so we were partying drinkin b33rs and chillin by the pool, so im drunk not to drunk just feel good, im up aganist the wall by my room with the door open music pumpin, just lookin at my friends, and I swear to you im not lying...This girl came over to me, and said "Your cute" she giggled and grabbed my shirt like pulled me into the room and she started to get undressed. I was like Whoaat the fuck...so ofcourse I get undressed...she starts blowin me as im rubbin/fingering her,, so we started fuckin bout 20-25mins later, were done, and we get dressed. We go outside the room, her fucking boyfriend was on the top level looking for her. So my friends inform me of this and we took a walk on the boardwalk...never saw her again.The moral of this story is I loved my girlfriend at the time (4yrs), and I cheated. It was a weird feeling... I think I can be more loyal now that im older.NOW the thing is do you tell your girlfriend/boyfriend...about it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happykittn Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 Yes. I was young and stupid. I was honest with my boyfriend about it, and we worked through it. But... never again.Older and loyal,~kitten >^.^< Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
covetoys Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 My x cheated on me. We were together for a long time as well.Never, ever cheated on her. But when I started dating again, I did what I hated about her. Wasn't honest, wasn't up front and totally wrong for doing it. I would never do again.Either you are in the relationship or not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
totallytrance Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 No, not planning to cheat on anyone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
covetoys Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 totallytrance's reply raises an interesting question. What if you were in a relationship with someone you really cared about, but had an opportunity to go beyond, not only sexually, with someone but also in a love-at-first sight type of way.For instance you are at a party or a club and you meet someone that all the sudden you have an unbeleivable connection with. One that outshines your current relationship. Are you falling deeper in love and are you cheating on yourself to not act on the impulses that are also mixing with your hormones?You might just find the love of your life. You will never know unless it happens I guess?Does anyone see my point?Originally posted by totallytrance No, not planning to cheat on anyone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blackhaus1 Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 I've cheated before only for stupid reasons...like being bored of the person i'm with...and it always results in me breaking up with them the following week because I have the WORST conscious EVERRRRRRR!The guy i'm with now--I could NEVER cheat on...i'm completely in love with him...hes my lobster. :heart: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
covetoys Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 lobster! Does that mean you use a nutcracker to break him or you just like to use butter when eating his tail?Originally posted by blackhaus1 I've cheated before only for stupid reasons...like being bored of the person i'm with...and it always results in me breaking up with them the following week because I have the WORST conscious EVERRRRRRR!The guy i'm with now--I could NEVER cheat on...i'm completely in love with him...hes my lobster. :heart: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heretic909 Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 Originally posted by covetoys and you meet someone that all the sudden you have an unbeleivable connection with. One that outshines your current relationship. Are you falling deeper in love and are you cheating on yourself to not act on the impulses that are also mixing with your hormones?You might just find the love of your life. You will never know unless it happens I guess?Does anyone see my point? I totally see your point. The girl I've been with lately understands me in a way that my current g/f never has, and I feel more of a bond with her than I do with my g/f. But my g/f doesn't get back to the States til June, so it'd be pretty shitty of me to leave her now for this other girl, even though me and this other girl have grown unbelieveably tight in the past couple months. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
randall16 Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 nope...never cheated....been cheated on.......and it suucks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReginaP Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 Originally posted by blackhaus1 I've cheated before only for stupid reasons...like being bored of the person i'm with...and it always results in me breaking up with them the following week because I have the WORST conscious EVERRRRRRR!The guy i'm with now--I could NEVER cheat on...i'm completely in love with him...hes my lobster. :heart: You're dating someone? That was sweet....Cove--if your meeting someone you feel you have a stong connection to makes you have doubts about your current, then I think you owe it to both yourself and your current gf to explore those feelings. BUT...not behind her back--I hate when people are selfish and try out the other person for a while when they are still supposedly "with" you--that way if the connection fails they've still got you there. A one or two time meeting with someone doesn't necessarily mean that the connection will still be there after a month or 2...so tell your current that you're having doubts and need a break. That way it will give BOTH of you the opportunity to see what's going on and what you're really feeling.Ugh, this question is making me very unhappy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
klohe Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 I haven't cheated on my guy now....but I admit to have cheated on guys in the past... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 Originally posted by ReginaP Cove--if your meeting someone you feel you have a stong connection to makes you have doubts about your current, then I think you owe it to both yourself and your current gf to explore those feelings. BUT...not behind her back--I hate when people are selfish and try out the other person for a while when they are still supposedly "with" you--that way if the connection fails they've still got you there. A one or two time meeting with someone doesn't necessarily mean that the connection will still be there after a month or 2...so tell your current that you're having doubts and need a break. That way it will give BOTH of you the opportunity to see what's going on and what you're really feeling.Those were my thoughts exactly.I'll admit that I've done some things while in a relationship that, in retrospect, were really fucked up and stupid- but I've never told someone I was committed to them and then broken that promise. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barbiegirl Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 i would NEVER - i'm so in love it could make some people sick !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimk29 Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 Never cheated on any girl I have been with. I have been with my current girl for 4 years now, and I am going ring shopping tomorrow. I have done a lot of browsing and i am going to make my purchase tomorrow. Has anyone been to Stuart Moore's in Soho? They have the nicest engagement rings there. They are all handmade. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blackhaus1 Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 Originally posted by jimk29 Never cheated on any girl I have been with. I have been with my current girl for 4 years now, and I am going ring shopping tomorrow. I have done a lot of browsing and i am going to make my purchase tomorrow. Has anyone been to Stuart Moore's in Soho? They have the nicest engagement rings there. They are all handmade. I have Jacob the Jewelers number if you want it...hes supposed to be the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blackhaus1 Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 Originally posted by covetoys lobster! Does that mean you use a nutcracker to break him or you just like to use butter when eating his tail? lol...i take it you don't watch friends? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 Originally posted by aboyfrombklyn Me? Never cheated. Never will. There's no good enough reason. Same here!!!! If you are that unhappy take a break or break up. I still can't think of a VALID reason to cheat on someone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
echostar Posted March 8 Report Share Posted March 8 never! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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