clubkat Posted February 4 Report Share Posted February 4 Why are you so afraid to moan in bed?Dont you know it turns us on just the same as a woman moaning into your ear can?Why the hell cant you let your feelings be heard? You do have vocal cords for something......but please; Dont start screaming like a little bitch! that is all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vicman Posted February 4 Report Share Posted February 4 I guess we associate it with porno flicks, 'cos John Dough and Rocco do plenty of it...it just seems i dunno, weird Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted February 4 Report Share Posted February 4 I dont think it's fear...have a few theories but i'll wait to see if anyone else cares to expand on your post...as for me...no holds barred...if it feels right - do it, say it, moan it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ronin Posted February 4 Report Share Posted February 4 I'm not affraid to moan in bed... shit if it feels that good at that time a nice moan is needed and have gotten better reactions from the girl when I moan. So clubkat... if u need someone to moan for you... just ask me:tongue: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluegirl Posted February 4 Report Share Posted February 4 well i think it might be cause up until they cum they are not really relaxed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubkat Posted February 4 Author Report Share Posted February 4 Originally posted by roninmess So clubkat... if u need someone to moan for you... just ask me:tongue: You have no idea how much that turns me on.....unfuckingbelievable Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubkat Posted February 4 Author Report Share Posted February 4 bs glow....they look pretty fucking relaxed to me when they are on their backs while im riding, giving me these faces, holdin back a moan.......fuckers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted February 4 Report Share Posted February 4 kat...if you're that frustrated...tell your mate(s)...this to me is a complicated subject - there are multiple issues - some men just cant let go - its a control issue - others might not think its ok for them to release in that manner - even others might worry what their mate might think...add to this, most men dont explore their own sexuality or get comfortable with their sexuality until they're older - if ever...best thing to do is COMMUNICATE...work off his reaction...you may convert a few and help them at the same time... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ronin Posted February 4 Report Share Posted February 4 Originally posted by clubkat You have no idea how much that turns me on.....unfuckingbelievable Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snoozi8 Posted February 4 Report Share Posted February 4 Kat you are so right damn I can be a bit loud sometimes if no one is around I guess I just feel like you need to let go and if you feel the need to moan and express what you're feeling it's good then the other person knows to keep doing what they're doing........ I definitely ask, if I don't hear anything, if something feels good to him, etc sometimes if you ask they're more vocal afterbut definitely you men out there, if you want to turn a girl on while you're on top of her..... kiss, lick, bite the sensitive spots on her neck and then moan near her ear so she can feel your warm breath at the same time oh damn it's lunchtime I can't be thinking these thoughts Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heretic909 Posted February 4 Report Share Posted February 4 I'm not really a moaner, I do more of this growl/snarl kinda thing. Past flings have said that it's like fuckin a beast which they seemed to enjoy. Especially when I'm biting their neck and growling in this low, guttural tone in their ear. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted February 4 Report Share Posted February 4 It's nice to hear a guy that's just as loud as I am in the sack.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vision Posted February 4 Report Share Posted February 4 being that i'm not havin sex with any guys its surprising to hear that allot don't moani'm a one moanin mf..ta boot i also moan when i munch..love moanin..i thought it was all part of it..like spankin and takin sucio Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted February 4 Report Share Posted February 4 there is no bigger turn on for me, when im goin down, for the guy to let me know hes lovin what im doin.... let me know that it feels good... and ill make it feel even better Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happykittn Posted February 4 Report Share Posted February 4 It is an amazing turn-on when a guy makes some noise in bed... I don't enjoy myself unless I know my partner is enjoying himself too... and one way to show this is by vocalizing pleasure. I don't know if constant screaming would be good, but little moans here and there are very encouraging. I do whatever I'm doing harder/faster/even more enthusiastically after that...Big fan of boys who aren't afraid to make some noise in the sack,~kitten >^.^< Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted February 4 Report Share Posted February 4 Originally posted by heretic909 I'm not really a moaner, I do more of this growl/snarl kinda thing. Past flings have said that it's like fuckin a beast which they seemed to enjoy. Especially when I'm biting their neck and growling in this low, guttural tone in their ear. Moaning, growling/ snarling- it's all good, just something to let us know you're enjoying yourself! there is no bigger turn on for me, when im goin down, for the guy to let me know hes lovin what im doin.... let me know that it feels good... and ill make it feel even better Especially when we're going down... how much does it suck to go down on a guy who makes no noise??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Addaboy1 Posted February 4 Report Share Posted February 4 Afraid to moan? What are you sleeping with mime's or something? Hell yeah I'm gonna say something if I like it. Most of the time, I think I'm too loud. All about moaning, letting them know when they're doing something right (and WRONG). Yell at me, order me around, just do something!It's all about being vocal!addaboy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cdeep Posted February 5 Report Share Posted February 5 The only noise being heard while I'm having sex are the crickets outside of my window. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxyh Posted February 5 Report Share Posted February 5 ~~the sexiest thing to me is when a guy makes that face like an animal like he wants to tear u apart....to me it shows how much he wants me....and when he moans(not too loud tho) near my ear that is OHHHHH AHHHHHHH........orgasmic!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
njdionysus Posted February 5 Report Share Posted February 5 You must not be having sex with the right men ClubKat. As in any relationship, communication is important and that applies to the bedroom too! I'm not afraid to express my feelings especially if it feels good and I want you to keep doing what you're doing... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubkat Posted February 5 Author Report Share Posted February 5 Well I am complaining, but it was more of a general statment Its not just Kat's problem...as you can see from the female responses. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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