not true. things don't always work out one way or another. some things you have to pursue relentlessly, and even then you may not get them. as a rule of happiness, you're always more likely to be miserable, unless your criteria for happiness is to be alone, broke, and with nothing to speak for duckets, i like the pic in your sig. there's no such thing as unconditional love. the closest thing to it is the love your parents have for you ------------------ "real fucking high"