so what you're saying is that everything else in his life was picture perfect until that moment that he walked in on them? he was an all-star athlete, good student, never abused drugs or alcohol, his parents were happily married and provided him with a nurturing, loving environment all his life? he had a close bond with his siblings and a circle of supportive, mature, stable friends? was pursuing a degree in a field that he loved? knew what he wanted out of life? worked out regularly? was active in campus organizations? had a part-time job that he liked? he was emotionally stable, mature and responsible? learn a little bit more about the psychology of suicide before you place blame and remember - it's not up to us to judge or place blame on the girlfriend.