shugabooga

yikes! never even kissed a girl? is it a religious thing/does he go to church all the time? maybe he's too afraid or something, and not somebody who would be easy to deal with. he might be so old-fashioned that he thinks a kiss means engagement, like back in the old, old days! good luck!

if the age difference isn't that much, you should give him a chance! he sounds like a sweetie!!!

not necessarily true. it depends on what you're looking for. i had a very sweet, fulfilling, albeit brief go-round with a much younger man recently. we didn't tell each other our ages to begin with and by the time we brought the topic up, we were already involved, so i just figured i'd let it run its course. we didn't want to stop at that point! i knew it wouldn't last forever so i just enjoyed it while i could. he didn't play games and was a breath of fresh air in that he was unjaded....very sweet & laid back, courteous and attentive. i was very lucky to know him. whatever young lady snags this man will be very lucky!! it just sucks it can't be me! (can you tell i miss him at all?) but generally speaking these things don't work out, they're mostly about a physical attraction, ego boost, and just having fun. it's when one person gets more serious that it becomes a problem. BUT, look at Susan Sarandon and Tim Robbins......he's quite a bit younger than her.......same w/ Goldie Hawn & Kurt Russell, right?

i hear ya mikey.....some of the most beautiful men/women i've ever laid eyes on come from the Middle East....sometimes North Africa.....

some guys never say a single word in bed! what's up with that? then there's others who talk dirty or say sweet things...... as for loudness, it varies, depending on the guy and where we are......i don't think we wake up the entire neighborhood but the neighbors above & below are privy to some choice sounds. one night i woke up in the middle of the night, out of a dead sleep, and with ear plugs in my ears, and damn! the girl downstairs was getting it good......the whole building was shaking, i'm not kidding. it was amazing!!!

gotcha!

that would be way cool. would it be this wednesday or the wednesday after this one?

as i recall it had something to do with "feeling the room" by walking up the stairs and looking at people's feet first, then their knees, then their torsos, then faces........felt freaky & disorienting as i recall. i'd do it all again right now if only i could! even the puking!

after you take your shower, let it dry naturally while you do your usual routine, but be sure to add a volumizer or gel after you towel dry and scrunch. ...and keep standing in front of the fan (this is when it's hot & humid outside) every so often and scrunch your hair with your hands constantly......twirl it into a knot and secure it with a headband on top of your head.......it will be softly curled when you take it town......spritz some kind of hairspray or gel.......it helps if you have your hair cut in layers......then just let it fly free all day! and keep scrunching it with your hands throughout the day to keep it full & wavy. and oh yes, wet long hair is sexy, on a woman OR a man!

my favorite topic. as all of you grow older you'll develop your own preferences for whatever reason. don't worry about what other people do or what anybody thinks about who you date. we're in New York City, people, we should all feel free to date, flirt, fuck or fantasize whatever we want. it's all very personal. but since i'm the oldest of the bunch (and i've been absent for so long) i'll share my thoughts from this age perspective. my preference is younger men because, at my age, all the "good" ones are taken, so in order to find a cute, fun, free-spiritied, open-minded, affectionate guy, i seem to always end up with younger guys. older men seem to be uptight, set in their ways, and they have a lot of baggage and their walls are up. they're always concerned about "making it" and impressing other people and i'm just over that. i think that as you grow older, age will matter less...unless you're the "older" woman dating a much younger man.......then it makes you feel like a goddess!

also it took me forever to get "waste not, want not"

"can i get a case quarter?"

cool, cool, cool! mikey, i'll be there, can't wait. sorry i missed last week, i was in class 40 hours last week! can't wait to see you again wednesday, hope riri will be there too!!!

yes, a meetup is definitely in order.......if we need dj's, i heard a great local dj recently......he had the dance floor rockin' on a wednesday night by 10 p.m. to a sexy crowd at groovejet...... speaking of dj's, i agree with what apotheosis says.......it's nice to have a chance to mingle without music blaring, but i think most of us would like to have the music start up by at least 9:30 or so.........so maybe do a thing like Float last year (except not at float, the bathroom situation SUCKED!), but keep the volume level down for the first few hours.

can't wait!!!!

we haven't had intercourse yet but does mutual masterbation count?

thanks, fantazy, buti already know what causes it to be curved just a little bit (the way he positions it in his undies) - but being curved like a banana when hard? maybe it's like phuturephunk says - it's caused by the way he, u-hem, pulls on it.... i read in Maxim that this kind of thing could be caused by an injury????

and i like brown men. caramel color is my favorite shade. white american men typically aren't attracted to me, or they treat me like dog-do - or they're boring or uptight or too conservative or into sports too much.......i really enjoy dating men from other ethnic backgrounds. it's refreshing to see things from their perspective and learn about their culture & beliefs. maybe your friend shouldn't worry about what white girls think about him and focus on the really cool multi-cultural girls out there in manhattan - they're everywhere!

why would a man's cock be curved like a banana when hard? i've seen them turned a little to the left or to the right when soft, but all the ones i've seen like that soft became straight when hard. help a girl out. what causes a cock to curve like a banana?

i haven't heard/can't find any info

u r SOFA KING RE TODD IT

when & where? mikey, as for the bbq, it's up in the air. i'll call ya. i need wheels!

i got my real estate license if anybody needs an apartment, let me know and i'll try to help

last night a bottle of chardonnay ended up with me getting my salad tossed for the first time.