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:laugh: ...damn this side is cracking me up...but please let it be a joke...otherwise I start crying in a second... My boyfriend always asks to have sex. "Come on, baby," he begs me, all the time. I feel really bad about making him wait, but I know that if I have sex with him too soon, he won't respect me. But I also know that if he ain't satisfied with me, he'll date some other girl. So once a month I show him how much I really love him by coughing up the $500 to get him a really top-quality call girl to fuck him silly. They are truly telling teenagers (who are still in school) to cough up $500 for theirs boyfriend to have sex....wtf...I wouldn't even be willing to spend that much on sex and I'm working and having a quite adequate salary. Phew.... ok, I finally made it to the FAQ section....thanks...it's a haux... now I can sleep soundly again

I still can't see it... the sexual contents, yep I've always seen but the anal connection...

Against common opinion (I'm sure most people will sream '3-some'), I would say it's better to forget and leave both. If you are interested in someone else (no matter if it's a friend or not) it means you aren't really feeling your partner anymore...which means, you should put it to an end. And as I believe that it is just not good and right that friends should date the same person (it's just some terrible stress on the friendship itself...I mean come on, who wants to compare notes with your best friend on how the guy is in bed and what moves are good or aren't), I think you shouldn't persue that either.

Exactly my thoughts....what do you have, if at the end of the day all there is left is pride and misery....sometimes it's just wiser to swallow your pride...and if that decision makes you even happy...well then forget that whole pride thing...what is it good for

I don't even know where to start on that thread and I'm not quite sure I can write down my thoughts straight as there are too many jumping up and down in my head right now. The thing is that I can call myself lucky as I've always only been an observer of the mentioned disfunctional relationships. I don't know why but I guess that some of my past and where I grew up (I'm from East Germany and referring to what hoke said, I think people used to look more to internal values as, at the end of the day, that was all you had) must have something to do with it (as most of my "old" friends too are in healthy relationships). I do believe that most people here place too much importance on sex itself. Just look at this board, some people here are sooo googly eyed over it, get all hot and horny (using these words constantly) and defend sexual liberation over everything else. I don't believe sex is THAT important, yes it is fun and I wouldn't want to miss it but at the end of the day, I do need feelings, I do need trust, I do need something else than the act itself and I place a lot of value into these "extras". As society (porn, magazines, TV shows etc.) also advocates all forms of sexual activities, people feel they have to experience all and that they are missing something or aren't accepted as well between their peers. Hence they place an overly strong focus on sex, and people try to compensate their longing for love and human interaction with a lot of sexual activity. And it seems the more you can tell that you had crazy, sick and weird sex (even more if you can claim with multiple partners... which as we all know doesn't work too often in a monogamous relationship), the more probs you get from people...even here on this board

Mmhhhh I don't really know what it would be at first sight....once you ge to know me...it's my funny and happy attitude...people usually say that it seems that there is NOTHING that gets me totally mad...even if situations arise that have everyone else boiling...I take it with a joke and a good laugh

I second that....that is really a VERY NICE set of boobs... see THATS what I call nice breast (not the ones from that other post, can't remember what it was called...I think rate those...or something like that). Those ones here get a

You're right that doesn't sound like deeply thought through...how are the girls handling it...they are best friends right?!? Well I know one thing for sure...I would give my parent a good kick in the ass and "ne Standpauke"...what the hell is wrong with them for not clearing up and 'preparing' the families beforehand...that is just soo inconsiderate and wrong (whatever feelings might be there, it doesn't justify treating people who share your life that way).

Yes that is really really bad, I just hope that those two people thought really long and thoroughly about their feelings and lifes. I mean somehow I don't want to say you SHOULD NEVER do that either. What if you meet the ONE person and you are already married, have a family or whatever..... your marriage might be at a point where both partners aren't happy anymore.... is it then still wrong to give in to your feelings Mmhhh, I don't really know...I just hope for the sake of both of those families that the two that run away, thought long and hard about the implications their actions would have...I also think they should have cleared up the situation before they took any action or at least seperate from their partners for a while in order to make sure that their feelings are for real.

I'm always amazed how easily we like to believe these stories about the "bad relationship" and the "no real feeling for the other girl"...I mean come on... it's sooo easy to lie to you when you are already cheating on your girlfriend, isn't it Man, the more I read your stories here the more I think that if I would have been born as a man, it would be sooooo easy to play most girls in this world (tastey, I think you are right when you say that girls always believe what they want to believe).

You are right, I don't believe in NEED either. The best relationships are those where two independent people, that don't need eachother to be able to live, CHOSE to be with eachother and WANT to be with eachother. Don't worry (and I know you don't ), even you will learn that one day...and hey, I'm sure you will find that feeling too one day (it would be bad if you would know everything already being 19....where is the learning from experiences etc....I'm nearly 10 years older than you and believe me, I KNOW that your time will come as well...if you want it or not, if you are ready or not, it doesn't matter, it just happens)

You pay for the most expensive oral pleasuring you can receive...but you let security wait outside the door until you are totally satisfied of course....

Damn this is screwed up, I feel really bad for the partners left behind as well as your friends, it must feel really awkward for them too. But thanks your last sentence at least proved to me that you do have some deeper issues with trust in relationships...hence I guess the whole playing around thing and using girls as "toys"

Damn...what's wrong with the girls in Karlsruhe...it must be something in the water

I think that also depends on the girls...if you are going for screwed up ones that think a guy has to treat them badly in order to be interesting... than yep you might not even get to the starting line as a nice guy.... I actually can't even say that I have ever been with someone that treated me really badly.... so in that respect I'm not a burned child.... on the other hand, I've also never fallen for guys like tastey, tommyarmani etc.

Sorry sweetie...maybe I can just not quite understand it. Believe me, I've heard the speech and you are not the first one that has ever played that game....still, I usually find those guys truly laughable (I said it before...you remind me VERY much of a good friend of mine and he tried to play this card too at least a hundred times). Still, if a guy would EVER and I mean EVER talk to me the way you said you talked to that girl for not jumping to your bongo play... I don't think I would wait to even hear the end of you speech.

:laugh: you soooo can't be for real....I'm cracking up here big time....wooohoooo....she didn't bark and asked how high she should jump for you...damn girls, have a mind of their own and don't do like they are being told....woopppddeeedoooo....I soooo hope she tells you to go ahead and block her phone number as she won't call you anyway anymore. One thing though...the girls you are seeing must be really dumb, I mean do you get anything with half a brain and self esteem or do you pick the ones with no self esteem at all??? Cause I know one thing for sure, if a guy would give me your speech EVER....he would definitely be off MY list...no matter how good he is in bed.

I think he looks most like a 'Stoli', second in line would be Davinci (cause it soooo doesn not fit him that it fits perfectly). Hope that helps...he looks really cute though...you three have fun together

I still think you are the biggest phony.... you are how old.... 19....but seem to be gods gift to women....lollolllol....well, I might look you up next time I come home, just to see, what your "specialty" really is....quite honestly, if you really exist, I don't think it's anything different that I've seen (and laughed at) at so many other men....but hey, I still "blame" your youth on it and the fact that you have never been in love, hence can't appreciate the meaning and feeling of it. You will one day...I'm sure of that and than suddenly the toys will have more meaning to you too.

Alright can you please just clarify something for me, cause that's something that is always mindboggling for me. You said earlier that you love your girlfriend and you also say now that you plan on marrying your girlfriend. How can you truly love someone when you plan in the same breath to destroy her life and hurt her forever. How do you think would she feel, if she finds out that you have been cheating on her for her entire life with you, let's say at the age of 65. I know that I would question ANYTHING that I thought I had, if my husband of many years would have been cheating on me for our entire life together. How would that make her feel. She only has this one life, and if you truly have ANY feelings for her, you should at least give her the chance to have the best life she can have....without lies to even begin with. Cause noone wants to be faced at the end of his/her life with a big pile of lies, questioning everything we hold dear???? Sorry, but I think that is beyond unfairness, I wouldn't even plan on marrying (I meant 'distroying') the life of a person that I hate....cause everyone only has this one life and should have a chance to make it special and worthwile.

I don't believe that everything has been already decided...cause that would make life pretty boring and why would we walk this earth than at all. But I do believe that there are certain things in life that will happen, either way. Maybe you meet a certain person today, maybe the choices you made years earlier will prevent that you meet this person today, but I do believe that you will meet him/her at some point in time.

the only consolation...guys, in their blindness, must really think we have the body of goddesses... :laugh:

Met my baby 15 months ago, been living together for 11 months now...can honestly say, I've never felt that sure about anything and anyone. Very much in love and it's growing stronger with every day

:laugh: soo true...lol I think is is just hypocritical to claim to be a virgin and meanwhile having anal or whatever. You either engage in sexual activity (and having a penis inside of you, is intercourse) or not.

I'm always amazed how differently men and women look at things....those boobs next to perfect??!!!??? OMG...I'm not even talking about real or not..cause quite frankly I have to say that most women that have fake boobs look proportionally better (just my opinion from what I've seen at strip clubs). Anyway, I don't think that these boobs look good at all...if the girl has paid for them (and they do look like she did) I would ask for my money back cause I definitely wouldn't like to walk around with boobs starting right under my chin.