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You're right.... then just a word of advise....don't worry and don't even react to it...I've heard so much shit (and yeah, I've probably given out some shit too)... and all I can do is, shrug my shoulders...there are people out there that know me and know the person I am...everyone else.... oh well

Stop apologizing... speak your mind and if people have something to say about that....well, then so it be...they speak their mind... there will always be people that feel offended by general critizism and take it far too personal... Other than that....just be yourself and if that's how you are than hey, more power to you!

My review: This was the first time that I have been out to Vinyl/Arc in a LOOOOOONNNG time mainly due to the fact that I did not like Vinyl as a venue. It always felt to me like someone just puked in the corner. Anyway, we got there early (around 12.20am) and when we entered the club I was like WOW...that looks soooo different. We immediately went on the dance floor and let Howells take us away. I was amazed, the air felt fresh and cool (finally I could breath in that club) and yes, we had space to dance I had a great time... just going at it for about 2 hours....Howells was amazing!!!!! Then Tenaglia came on and it gave the whole party a bit of a...well, how do I put this best without people jumping up and down my throat...well, it actually broke up the whole flow as both have very different styles and none could evolve much as they were pulled back by the other person. Anyway, I still enjoyed myself up to the point that the place got sooooo packed and I was unable to move. Now coming back to the guys without shirts....ok, I do understand that you are hot and need to cool down...so does anyone else. BUT, I'm only 5.3ft and I can't stand having some sweaty arm or shoulder touching my face constantly while dancing....I really HATE that!!!! So PLEASE, put those shirts back on or at least take them only off when it's not as crowded and you can leave enough space between you and the short girls next to you.... Other than that, I had a great time and I think that I'll make Arc my new monthly residency... the same time Howells does his so we can enjoy that night together...

Thanks mugwump, now I'm sitting here all teary eyed in the office.... that was sooo nicely put and said... I wish you two all the best and may your love for eachother grow and get stronger with every day, every minute, every second.... May your love for eachother give you the strenght to take on any hurdle that live throws your way....GOOD LUCK!!!!!

Can only agree that it was definitely nothing I expected. The shots were great, really well made movie...and I do understand the nose blowing mugwump

Same here...I didn't attend any meetups but was very happy to see some familiar faces (after a LONG LONG time) again. Also very happy to finally meet siceone....hey sweetie, if you read this, sorry I disappeared so fast again...we''ll talk later

I really dislike the idea of Bukkake parties...especially is you think where and how this originated: "Bukkake is a Japanese term that refers to showering a receiver with sperm from one, several or many men. It is always a sperm shower and, therefore, those on the giving end are always male. Legend has it that in ancient Japan, women who were found to be unfaithful were publicly humiliated in the town center by being tied up while every man in town ejaculated all over her to show his distaste. Basically, they were saying that if you're going to take it from someone else, you're going to get it from everyone else." It still looks humiliating...hey if you enjoy it as a woman ok, but otherwise I just think that's a "weird male fetish"

:laugh: ...well, at least someone else picked up on that one too...I was wondering where in hell my clitoris gets any stimulation during doggy...unless a hand is place there.

long time, I know, but I had to see what's going on here (damn addiction)

:laugh: ...just thinking of the drama I missed.... damn....

Wow I haven't seen you around in ages....I think last time we 'talked" was when Twilo was still open... Anyway, yep, I think I'll be there too this time

...yes and we have all heard that story already a hundred times...I think there was only that one "involved" girl that went with you.... Anyway, smurfy...I think "well done" for at least asking her out (and you know how I mean it ). About the "good fish being taken"....I think in your age group it might not be that bad. There are still a lot of single people out there and sure the dating game isn't really easy but I'm sure you'll hit the jackpot at some point and then it was all worth it !!!!!

Hey pappa smurf...I'm not sure I can offer any advise as I'm rather in a state of confusion over your situation. Don't understand it at all...the only logical explanation I can find for her behavior... the ease of your lie made her think that you do so all the time. Sometimes people get really disappointed in another person when they realize how easy a lie can come over their lips...and maybe that's what just happened. It might made her feel really uncomfortable and then all the other times you two were together slipped into her mind and she questioned everything that you ever said to her. sorry only my two cents.... ...otherwise, I would go with the rest of cp here....the girl seems to have issues that go far deeper than you think

:laugh: I thought the website says "upscale genlemen"... ...as far as I know there are only boys that are happy when they can celebrate their 21st birthday here PS.: ...and yep, I really like the donation information...lol...yeah, I call it simply prostitution...but hey

I do believe friendships can develop into the best and strongest relationships. I guess what a lot of people refer to when they advise you not to go this road are meaningless, little sexual flings (or friends with benefit) as those, usually leave one person behind. Anyway, if both people are sure about their feelings and feel that it's worth to go this extra step and that it might not only be a short term thing, then I think it is one of the best ways of finding the right person....cause you will start where other relationship will never go.

Yes...that can definitely happen....had it only happening once though... and there was no verbal stimulation necessary... ...just by teasing my breasts and massaging them...mmhhh nice

A...check your email!!!!

That was the worst display of the outcome of a game being fixed... it's unbelievable. I always said (and I got put back in place for saying it) that the referees are paid off and the game is fixed.... ... but yesterday just topped it. Why are we still watching??? And then the worst...all those commentators and journalists calling it a great Lakers game and the champions are back... come on, give me a freaking break.... Well, the lesson learned....next time you get runover by a car....please get up (stop whining about all the blood you've lost) and appologize to the driver

...well I would definitely be careful about those "private meetings".... it's one thing to go out as a group and meet new people a totally different thing to go out with a total stranger....don't forget "everyone can be NORMAL through the internet" .....for all you know.....I could be a 50 year old men (like spragga) and you wouldn't really know

Actually a year ago or so I would have thought it is a good way to meet people... ...and it might still be a good way of initially making first contact with people (btw: I'm not talking about romance or sex relationships...just making friends)... ...at the end, it really comes down though if you click with the person in real life or not. People don't always portray themselves on a board the way they really are ...it's so much easier to be sexy, 'beautiful', mean or even mad at people that you don't really see....so I think that real misconceptions about the person on the other end exist and that it's than harder to adjust to the real person as you have created a different picture in your head. I would say.... make initial contact but then meet the people and try to get to know the real person.

Because from what I've seen so far of sassa on the boards....I wouldn't think that this kind of guy has (in the past) been her style/type...so I guess she is rather suprised at herself..... ....hey sassa....so am I....and sorry, I guess you are just falling for one of those cocky a-holes.....hold on, is his name tastey

Thanks tastyt I know it's rather unbelievable...lol...and btw: yeah I can confirm that you are the sex freak in real life, that you portray on the board (and that's what I like and respect you for)

btw: WHERE IS RIZZO?????? ...funny but I haven't seen him around for a while now... :laugh:

:laugh: ...damn, you people are either all really really young or just insecure... ...you all crack me up....every time someone makes a sarcastic or ironic comment...people take it so damn personal...relax everyone, noone is out to get you...it's all just in your head....stop the drugs and the paranoia. And btw: I'm German and yes people make jokes about Germans too.... look at all those "Fraeulein" in movies with the real strong accent. So what....damn, if you believe in stereotypes than hey, go ahead, what do I care about other peoples stupidity.... grow up everyone

pissy and bitchy on the board - rather upsent minded or really friendly (depending on the time of day and person) in real life