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I think I qualify for the "age perspective" too and I can only agree with shugabooga here. Once you get older, a lot of the men in your age group and older are already taken and/or have a lot of baggage to carry around with them. Furthermore, a lot of you people claim maturity/immaturity (and btw: some of the comments made by 19 year old girls, which I still consider babies, seem very immature themselves). Maturity doesn't come with an age tag. I live with my boyfriend who is nearly 3 years younger than me and I consider him more mature than some of my colleagues at work that are a few years older. This doens't mean that my boyfriend does not also have the baby-side, which is crazy, free spririted and fun loving ...but as cgm put it so nicely it's all about EMOTIONAL maturity and how you connect on that level, ie commitment, honesty and trust, openess, and emotinal availabilty.

...see baby, that's where you are SOOOO wrong. You are NOT their perfect mate...you are just a lier and an illusion. Something made up in order to get into their pants and play them....and whatever crap you come up with (meaning: ...but I give them exactly what they want) is just bullshit and you know it too. ...damn, how lonely do you really feel. Do you like yourself at least a little bit....or how does it feel if you have to be a chameleon (btw: did you see the movie "AI" and that gigolo robot...cause that's what you soooooo remind me off) in order to get girls to like you

Wideskies....you took the words right out of my mouth...the first thing I thought while starting to read this thread is "Why the heck does he say this question goes to men and women equally and then we talk once again only about how everyone likes the female pubic hair" Anyway, back to the thread and reading what else is going to come up.

:laugh: this is the funniest story I've heard/read in a long time. Brickhouse thanks for finding and posting this one...and for all of those "shave this and that and arghhh body hair is so disgusting"..damn, it's there for a reason and if you would all just learn to accept your bodies the way they are...society's pressure would be much less and things much easier.

lol...can I repeat the question: ...Still searching for love eh?...

Ok, all I can say: weyes, be careful taking the pill if you have had already problems with your period staying away for some time. I got on the pill when I was about 16. Took it for more or less 6 years straight. As I wasn't in a relationship, I thought it would be a good idea to stop for a while to just get my body through a "normal" cycle. Well, what a surprise, I didn't get my period for about 3 years unless I went to see the doctor and got shots. Luckily it returned to normal...although yes, now I do have very severe cramps the first two days plus I can hardly walk straight when I ovulate. I usually use pain killers (cant' remember the name now, but it's something specifically for periods).

Yep, that sounds pretty much like the guy I saw....

Ok...finally found the thread. Mugz...you are the guy working in the shop selling used CD's, DVD's and stuff on Washington, right... ??? Well, I were in there yesterday, but wasn't quite sure and what's more stupid than coming up to someone asking: "Are you from the cp-board" Anyway, maybe next time

I don't find her attractive whatsover... weird Anyway, the TWO guys seem to be REALLY good lovers....I mean imagine, having sex with two guys and then you still have to finger yourself... ...they really seem to know how to satisfy a woman

Yeah, I have to tell you that I didn't enjoy sex as much when I first started. I think it hurt quite a for a while and maybe I just wasn't relaxed enough. Anyway, I just can agree with wideskies....lots and lots of foreplay and slow movements might do the trick Wish you all the luck and always happy to hear if someone is as much in love as you seemed to be....hope all works out

lollollol....djmoonshine...for once we agree on something I soooo don't care...I don't even think I could match them if I wanted to, meaning that I have that many ensembles laying around. On regular days, I think I grab merely still sleeping into my drawer and that's it... Now, if I want to seduce my man, well I might take a better look before I put it on

That's so sweet cause that's exactly how I feel. We were best friends and it developed into love...but we were both young and just learning. I do think that the relationship I'm in now is much more passionate, fulfilling (both emotionally and physically).

I know I should react, I really know it but I can't stop myself... What the heck...that is one of the most stupid and immature replies anyone can make: You cheat on her and she dumps your ass and all you can come up with is screw around with other women so she will really TRUST you....damn tastey, but sometimes I really think you are only 14 years old and have no clue at all. tommyarmani: Sorry hun, but your girlfriend might be better off without you and quite honestly, I don't think I could forgive what you did to her either and just move on and live with it. Too much trust was broken and it wasn't an one time accident but rather a malicious cheating act...really betraying her. So maybe you should leave her alone so she can get over it and find her strenght and trust in people back.

5.5 years and the break up was on very good terms...we hadn't stopped loving eachother...just figured out that we both wanted very different things out of life and in order to let the other grow and develop, we had to let go. We are still very good friends and have managed to keep in touch over all those years since then...

Totally agree with velvetgoldmire....when you feel like talking to her. Stop those stupid little mind games, if you like a person, just call her and forget all those 3-day (or whatever) waiting rules...they suck

Alright you two (hoke and velvetgoldmire)....just in case you two haven't realized...you ARE actually on the same wave length here. I do think both of you agree that it's not an easy decision to make and I do think that both of you would give it some serious thought and not reject that person immediately. Can we agree on that ....cause it seems to me that both of you are going back and forth, even though your thought processes don't differ that significantly.

I think that is a very interesting question...thanks wideskies. I honestly can't really say what I would feel at that particular moment. I don't think the trust issue would be the big problem here as I wouldn't imagine and expect someone that went through a sex-change, to run around and tell everyone first thing into a conversation. The thought itself, especially as I haven't detected any bi-sexual qualities in my life so far, would probably rather freak me out. It's stupid, I know but I do think that I would reevaluate the relationship and see how deep it really is. If my feelings for that person are what I believed them to be, I would probably get over it try to look beyond it. I would probably be though saddened by the fact that we would never be able to have our own little family. Still, I don't think I would ditch that person at all...as I can't see any reason to do so. I'm not fooling myself by saying that it doesn't matter at all....it would probably require some hard thinking before I could make peace with that fact and continue the relationship.

Leave it to xtcgspot to make you feel really "old"...damn you To answer the question...mmhh I think I would have to go with someone into art...someone like a writer, painter or something....anyway, not going to happen as I'm very happy with my semi-arty baby ) and I'm not going to change that....Otherwise, I always was been SOOOO NOT attracted to the same kind as me...or rather the guys I would meet at work (business types....arghhh, nice to work with....so not for my love life)

Mmmhh....recalling some of the statements you made....and all the "well meant" suggestions... ....I hope you are making the "right" (imo) changes in your life, which will hopefully mean noone is getting hurt crossing the path of Tommy Armani... anyway, hope it all works out for you AND everyone around you

(overall) HAPPY

I can only agree with everyone else...honesty and clarity is key...talk to the person and try to communicate your feelings etc. Then again...don't make the situation into something it isn't...especially if you are known for misjudging this sort of thing... sometimes friendliness and casual behavior are easily misinterpreted by our male companions ...so see what's going on and try to keep an objective outlook on the situation. Good Luck though!!!

And now can please someone repeat that phrase again: "It's xx's party and we are his guests"... lol...no, it's about money and being in the 'right business', being 'useful to further the career' and 'knowing the right people to be used as a diving board"...and that's pretty much it. As much as we all hate it, music is a business like so many others, only some very few and great people never forget where their roots are and where they came from. Keep your chin up Mugwump and do what your heart tells you to do...just don't put your expectations on people too high...you might be left out in the rain again and again

Tastey....most of the time I find you quite amusing...but sometimes you're just an "Arschloch". You really sometimes don't have a clue...I mean, come on, you have been on the board long enough to put a few things together about some of the board members, so stop insulting them. Secondly, this is America and as weird as it sometimes seems for us, yes there are a lot of people that 'wait for marriage' and all of that...well, what can I say, it's a dfifferent mentality and you have to respect that. All your other stuff....oh please, you don't sound happy either...rather like a sex-robot "I'm here to fulfill all their sexual desires, all those deep feeling inside of them...blah blah blah" ...sometimes you just want to make me barf...especially when you come with this really slimy and (I guess you think it's) sexual 'Geplapper' (see some of the posts when you think you really hit the girls psyche). Anyway, to get back to the orginial post. I do believe that relationships are about much more than sex. The waiting for marriage would definitely not have been something for me, but hey, I do think you should respect people's wishes....and not try any such shit as gothzane suggested...cause this would get me really pissed as it shows no respect for the person itself by disregarding their choices. So, well I would say, if you really like the other person, just go with the flow and see where it will lead you

Well, yeah I'm at least trying to... and that where I REALLY hate going to the hairdresser...what a mental torture every time. Thanks though for the tipping advice....this now at least leaves me with one less thing to think about

Sorry, nothing sexboard related but I've got a question and as I'm not so sure who to ask (we don't have that many women in the office here)...I thought, what better place to turn to than cp Anyway, I'm going to the hairdresser today and I wanted to know what the customs are about tipping the owner of the salon. He is cutting my hair, but he owns the salon, so do I still give the same amount on tip than I would to a 'regular' hairdresser???? Please advise....THANKS A BUNCH!!!!