Yeah, the game sucks... but not everyone is out to play it. I like meeting new people and talking to them, but a club is just not the place to do it. From my personal standpoint, this is why I don't give guys at clubs the time of day. First of all, I have a boyfriend. Second of all, any guy who is going to come up to me and drop a line, or start grinding up my ass is obviously trying to "kick game" and is not just being friendly. That is why girls like me are rejecting guys... they are at a club to have fun and dance with friends... we are not at a meatmarket. The girls that are there to be picked up are the ones that succumb to the "game kicking" skills of your friends. These are also girls I call "club sluts" who do these things every weekend. So, next time your friends urge you to "kick it" remind them of the kind of girls they are picking up. You are perfectly sensible in saying that playing the game is retarded, cause most other mature adults feel the same way.