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AH Jess - such sweet words. Yes I was King of the Sex Boards once upon a time. But internet time moves so fast. Now its all a distant memory. Though I still talk a good game and lick a mean pussy I almost never post. First time back in awhile but great to hear from you. I'll drop you an e-mail sometime. I must hear about university and all the action you be getting - or at least planning on getting. Luv ya babe! WYatt

told ya school would rock. wish you well, wyatt

If you do return officially to the land of the single we should have a big cumming out party. I'll fly down - but only if you wear those black little pants again - or better yet - nothing at all:)

Jana - Great to see you. You too Doris babe! Nothing went wrong at all. Just needed to rant after a conversation with someone who feels the exact opposite. And whereelse butt here to get it out of my system. Someguygve up anal sex because he once got a little poopon his peter. I'm like "heh, shit happens!". or the girl who thinks that her guys should always cum inside her vagina and then she immediately oes to washroom afterwards to wash it out so that they never get any semen on them or have to deal with it being crusty in the morning.

This rant may make no sense but I needed to get it off my chest after a frustrating combo. I feel the first step to great sex is accepting the human body. The human body is a disgusting mobile bacteria colony. it sheds skin, produces snot, shits, pisses and farts. People can have bad breath days and sex fluids get all crusty when they dry in your hair. Semen has a strong smell and sometimes pussies have a discenible (though not unpleasant odour). You occassionally get shit on your dick or fingers when you have anal sex. Doggy style can produce the loudest pussy farts. But until you accept it and even kinda like how messy sex is you will always hold back. Great sex is about finding nothing disgusting. et the cum fly where itmay landing on her face or your own stomach. Pussy farts and to be laughed at and enjoyed in some moods or just completely ignored in others. A little shit on your dick or some blood by accident is not cause for alrm or a big deal. Sex is nasty. Deal with it.

I will Ichi. T n' T will be in a city closer to you than me very soon.

Nothing Gross about a dick up an asshole. It just so happens that I prefer it with my dick in a girl's hole. But if two guys like to play then that's cool - just not my sport know what I mean. But I'd hardly call it anymore gross than guys and girls or girls and girls. In the end its just people getting off - its all the same.

Nothin wrong with a girl's finger or tongue in your ass

Having seen TastyT's ass in a pair of skin tight black pants...well...all I can say is Tasty !! Yummm!

Hate being the devils advocate but many lesbians find that fisting can be extremely enjoyable. And the vagina does seem to return to normal size. Anyways, my hands are too big to fist agirl so not really my cup of ea.

Generally, fisting as an enjoyable activityis part of the Lesbian sub-culture. Basically, women have far smaller fists so its actually quite pleasurable.

Ha Ha Ha Jana But you are only at stage one. The love teaches you but then, you learn to love it forthe whole act itself - notjustas something you do for someone you love. After doingit for just love you will learn to lovethe sensuality of it and would do it, teheoretically, for anyone you thought enough ofto blow in the firstplace. But since you have found your one and only you will never haveto put this to the test. Glad you are evolving at sex. We all need to learn new things

Gotta love you nasty, naughty girls Of course I've found that if you set theright emotional atmosphere most girls will find their naughty side pretty quick

To any girls that aretrying to learn to squirt this is the extent of my knowledge (my $0.02 so to speak): Get your guy to get one of the vibrators that curves up to hitthe G-Spot. Show him where the spot is. Then relax with a hal-glass of wine and maybe a joint. get him to massage you. Get him to tease and eat you slowly building you up. Get him to eat you to several orgasms. Then when you are good and juicy and ready tie you down so you can't get away. Put pillows under your ass toraise your pelvis and give him gerat access. Have him find the G-Spot with his fingers andslowly arouse it. Then stick the vibrator in your ass. Slowly keep moving it back and forth. Eventually replace the fingers withthe curved g-spot vibrator and get him to massage your g-spot with it is smooth, steady, semi-circular motions. He can also suck on your clit but at first he might want to be ableto see what is going on more so you can rub it or put a pocket-rocket on it. At this point you are into thesquirt zone butalso into theeverybody is different zone. You gotta experiment andfind what works. Often you haveto go through a few more orgasms until you finally work up to the squirt. Probably won't get it the first nite out but its sure fun trying. Andyou will certainly have some G-spot or combined g-spot/clit orgasms that will blow your mind even if you don't get the full squirt. When you get a feeling like you have to pee but not quite that then you are on the right track. Just relax and let it out. Anyways this is what I have cobbled together from personal experience, alking to chicks and reading and watching good porn. Throw it all in together, added some creative touches and that's my approach. Might not be any good but its thebest I can do. Good luck and good squirting

Thanks Chula. I figure if it feels good and it doesn't hurt anyone do it. And keep doing it. And then do it some more. I understand hang-ups and limitations. We all have some. What I don't understand is people trying to rationalize their hang-ups as being somehow a good thing - as having some moral basis to them. Rather, accept them as weaknesses and try to change them. You might or might not succeed. But at least try. And don't even get me started on vibrators. Had a recent conversation with some guys and girls who think Vibrators have no place in bed or that girls in relationships shouldn't use them. Some of the guys feared they would replace them, etc... What pissed me off is the same sort of thing. Instead of the guys just admitting they feel intimidated they framed it as some moral or rightness issue "A couple with a healthy sex life shouldn't need vibrators!!". He'll we don't need any of our toys but they sure are fun. Anyways, suffice to say that I am of the opinion that Vibrators rock. Sex is about variety and anything that gets her off makes me happy - especialy if I can sit back, watch and maybe even "prepare" myself Besides, I figure that the first time a guy sees what happens when you stick a vibrator in each hole while you suck on a rock hard clit they will change their tune pretty fast. The image comes to mind of a head thrashing back and forth, hips swivelling and grinding so hard you have to tie her down and screams that will be etched in your happy memories for years And then there is the huge juicy payoff as she cums, screaming, dripping, drenching your face. God, I am so long winded today. I don't know what's with me but I just can't stop thinking about sex.

Bye Jess. It will be everything you dreamed of an more.

When willpeople learn thatgood sex is about acceptance of the body. There is nothing inherently gross about semen or a woman's juices. HAlf of the reason some women hate the taste of semen is because they think they should -because they think its gross. Most alchohol shots taste worse but because they are not thought of as disgusting then we learn to adapt to the taste. As an example, saliva ispretty tasteless. But if you had to chug a shot of a complete strangers saliva you would think it tastes awful - see mind over matter. Now, some people are still gonna dislikethe taste of semen no matter what. And that's fine so long as they cometo see that itis not gross or disresepctful and they wish they could swallow. Swallowing is great and all but the real turn off in a lover who doesn't is thatit is a rejection of you and, more importantly, a sign that they do not share my open and passionate approach to sensuality and pleasure. So if a girl is trying then that's what really matters. As for the taste, I've tasted mine plenty. If a girlwants to kiss me with it still in her mouth its all good. Its sex. Sex is nasty, dirty, messy and that's why I love it. And when she swallows for me I'll return the favor by taking out the two vibrators and sticking one in her pussy, one inher ass and lick her clit until she gives me the huge g-spot squirt all over my face. Then its my turn to swallow and I will do so withthe hugest smile and hardest errection you have ever seen.

I would never say I don'thave jealous feelings. Denying them is the first step to having them take over. But admitting you have them and simply conceding to them - surrendering your life to them are two differnt things. Youhave to fight them and learn to control and channel them if you want freedom and openess in your relationship. (not sexual openess - just a general openess). Some people do not want that - thatis fine. But me - I want that. I want my wife to haveclose guy freinds. It is a risk but well worth the rewards and whjatever makes her happiewr and more fulfilled as a person is returned to me through y relationship to her. Man do I sound like a sapy hippietoday. But this guy seems to be doing more than communicating his feelings - he seems to be being an ass and making ultimatums. Asthe third party all you can do is basically tell the girl that you respect her as an adult and will play by whatever rules she wants. Its up to her to make peace with her husband or to tell her friend she can't be friends. Now isf the husband confronts the friend directly and makes it more complicated you mayhave to tell the girl that the friendship is on hold until she can find a solution with herhubby.

To each their own Rparadox but I don't think I could love a woman who would be happy if the only man she ever did things with was me. In today's day and age the line between a date and a friendly nightout is motre blurred,, more informal. But I'm not sure that's cause to chain your woman up to you and your family members. I figure the better reaction is to communicate even more and really develop a level of trust to the point where if you found her drunk at aclub with 5 male strippers all you would do is laugh and get a camera. That's my idea of a relationship - I guess everyone has their own.

You girls are so cute. Now when can we see those picure of your "other" kitties?

Fess up to it. You can let him know that being drunk was part of the reason but don't use it as an excuse. I don't buy into the whole routine about never dating a friend's ex. Imean its unfair to her since it amounts to her ex-boyfriend still controlling her life. I always strove for a mddleground. You should not do casual things just for pleasure like youdid in french kissing her. But if someone has real feelings for a friend's ex then he should be allowed to pursue them as long as they are upfront about it.

Never done it but I'd be all over it. I'd prefer 2 girls and a guy but I'd do itthe otherway around from time to time to give my woman some of that good old DP fun.

I agree Sweetie - you gotta test it out although I'm pretty sure this is how I'll feel because I have hung out with several couples that are totally in love and do whatI said I would. And I really felt in sync with the way they felt and I saw the way they loved and yet were sexually open. Still, I guess we will see someday. But as I did say, I think you have to create your own world before you share it. When you are in thatinitial obsession, crazy , totally in love feeling then sharing isthe last thing you want. Butafter a few yearsthe edge comes off of that while the feelings get deeper - then its time to spice things up hehe Of course if she is bi then I'm into menage a trois pretty damn soon ) The rest can wait.

Ah sorry sweetie Conflict sucks. But this is serious - not trivial. From talking to you I have an idea of how you work. You are a serious sexual creature. Sexual energy is what keeps the sparkle in your life. I think that you are on the wrong track on this argument. The point is respect and understanding - not jealousy. To truly let your sexuality blossom you need a man who has conquered most of his jealousy and controls the rest. You should both be able to stare and drool as much as you want. It should be fun. There should be no rules - just common sense and understanding. If you are around other people who aren't like you and your BF stares and drools over other women then he is showing no respect to you around those frieds. If you are having an insecure day or are drained or need his attention then its not the time to stare. Its time to focus on you. But on most days you and your BF should be checking out and openly oggling everything that goes by. Sure, when it comes to men you might want to be less extensively vocal about the details. Not because he would be jealous but because he can only share so much of the fun. Although, if you are open minded, it can work. I have no interest in guys but I can tell what a good looking guy is. I will point them out to girls I am close too and maybe even whisper things like "Wouldn't you love to be riding his cock right now" etc.. as she stares at him. Its all fun. If she gets wet then I am happy Both checking out hot girls together should be a no-brainer. How the hell can you two have menages, forget about truly open relationships , ifyou can't even stare at some guys ass and tell him that you think its hot. That you cannot drool over a nice rack together boggles my mind. I really think you have a decision here. I'm not sure if this guy is capable of sharing or embracing your powerful and creative sexuality. Fighting to make him do so might be futile. You might have to either accept it and cut this part out of your personality if you think you can and he is worth it - or move on. Tough situation. All the best, Wyatt

Speaking personally, I believe in an open sexuality. I could never marry a woman that was not Bi-Sexual. Threesomes ande moresomes would definitely need to figure in our lives. I say that you probably need the first few years of a relationship to solidify your conection before you open things up but after that its time to party. However, I have somelimitations which I think are necessary to focus the openess on pure sexuality. I do not believe in both partners having intimate affaiors outside of the relationship. Anything that happens at a sexual event where we are both attending is fine. We don't have to be in the same room at the orgy. Most Bi-Sexual women are only Bi on a sexual basis - not a romantic basis. So another woman would be no threat to me. So my wife / GF could feel free to sleep with all of the women she wanted to - with or without me. I think as we grew more secure the rules could be stretched a bit. The key is that you do nothave a sexual relationship that could threaten the other partner or has the possibility of emotional entanglement. She cannot sleep with her guy freinds if I am not there. If I am there its a differnt story - every girl deserves a few good Double Penetrations And then you would not want to do this too often with a guy she actually cares about as the sex could complicate things. But you would have to play it by ear. On the other hand, if every once in a blue moon something like she got horny and gave the 18 year old pool cleaner guy the ride of his life - well that would be cool as hell. An 18 year old is no threatto us. However, her getting drunk and banging her co-worker at the office party is ano no because he is capable of having a romantic relationship with her - he is a threat - relative same age, good income, sees her frequently etc.... So I think at first you start with just you two. Then you move on to menages. Then you let her sleep with chicks whenever. Then maybe its orgies - but in the same room. Then its different rooms. Finally you throw away the rules and play it by ear using common sense. That would be my progression.