hehe... why does it seem i always have to go against the grain??? anyway, heres what im thinking... yeah everyone told you that an ex is an ex for a reason and a part of me believes that as well... but another part of me is feeling like maybe everyone should have the chance to see for themselves... i mean i could see how someone might say, that doesnt make sense... she should be able to decide from other peoples experiences... but thats my whole point... it's other peoples experiences and not your own... i mean, who's to say that your experience is gonna be the same? i dunno... all im trying to say is listen to what you're heart is saying... maybe you wanna see for yourself if things have changed... lol... i dunno... i think i confused myself... so now you all think im retarded.. either way... whatever you do... good luck~