i dunno... this is weird cause originally me and my bf broke up cause i was leaving to a school that was 4 hours away... cheating on someone is completely different... but either way, it sounds cliche, but time def. heals all wounds... in the beginning i couldn't eat, sleep, have fun, do anything... but after a while, you think of it less... it gets later in the day before the first thought of him enters your mind and eventually you get stronger... you'll always love him (i think... i mean you did cheat... ) and i guess you could say a piece of your heart will always belong to him, but you learned and now you are living with experience... good luck~