i didnt catch my ex-bf in the act, but i found out thru other means. instead of me going after either of them to fight.....i just played him the fuck out for everyone to see i cheated on him, talked to other guys, went out to factory on the weekends without him and never invited him along, got my bday gifts, xmas gifts and a free new years ........after about 7 months of playin his ass out, he dumped me and i couldnt have been happier....i laughed as he was dumping me damn, i was evil i was also 19 (im 23 now, would never do that again)