I'm the queen of ldr!!! This is my 2nd one and.... well im here in freakn CA and he's in Boston..! yeah i know it's crazy...we see each other about evert 1 1/2 months, he comes home then I go fly over there. It's been going on for about 5 months. It was all right at first but slowly he started putting less and less effort in it which sucks but what can you do...he sort of broke up w/ me but still doesn't act anything like it...BUT ALL IN ALL SUCKS, it's just way too hard but he's worth all the BS for me so...In the long run I don't think they work eventually one person would have to move to be together....