i think your mom planted the doubt into your head...just bc he acts in a feminine manner doesnt mean nething....my guy friend gets a manicure, haircut, pedicure, parafin, goes shopping (he's addicted to it) every week and he's faaaaaaaaaaaaaaar from gay....so i say don't worry so much bc your going to make yourself even more paranoid and drive your self nuts Just be happy you found a great guy:tongue: