lol im the debator, i'll sit there and if someone starts a debate with me, i will continue it for houuuuuuurs. i just dont like the whole, "you know, you and him have been together quite some time, when are you two....." good thing though, i volunteered as hostess when i was 7 and its been that way ever since. most holidays are at my house with my family, the rest of the family comes over. i manage to avoid most discussions/arguments/drama by putting out napkins, setting up the food, presents, dessert etc, however, its when we sit down to dinner where i want to rip my hair out