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that's why i said REALLY thin people... but i think many young women are REALLY thin

most people look better without clothes on, whether they be fat or thin... okay, maybe not the REALLY thin or REALLY fat, but most everyone else in between. i look really bad with half my clothes off, though. it needs to be all off or all on.

gut feelings are often trustworthy. if you you stay positive and happy about the future of the relationship, odds are that it WILL end up positive and happy. if you start doubting and worrying, the relationship will suffer. i figure you'll have the best chance of staying together if you truly believe you will.

nah man, you supply the mayo ;>

yeah, you two can pop over to a deli ;]

ideally, people would be honest about what they're looking for... a one night stand, a sex buddy, a serious relationship, or something else. but the fact is that a lot of people are either dishonest or just don't know what they want. the thing is, some people value sex in such a way that they wait until they've gotten to know someone better to have it. it's an intimate activity that is less of a way to introduce themselves and more of a gift to share with someone they've determined is good enough to share it with. just because a person doesn't use fucking as a way to screen someone doesn't mean s/he doesn't think sex is an important part of a relationship... it just means s/he thinks it should be something reserved for people who deserve it. yeah, i don't get why people pay for sex. there are lots of people out there willing to have sex with most anyone, anywhere... even on deli meat. ... which is why people need to communicate. maybe people are afraid of outright rejection or something? breaking things off as soon as it's clear they aren't going the way you want them to lets you have more time to find someone who suits your needs. so you're saying there's something the matter with people who feel happiest in a serious relationship? sheesh... you sound a bit bitter... kind of like someone who can't sustain a long term relationship. just as there's nothing wrong with people who just want sex, there's nothing wrong with people who DON't just want sex... or don't want sex till marriage, or even don't want sex at all. while the last case is a bit extreme, it's not WRONG... it's just different.

hm... i don't like making other people feel uncomfortable, and many people do feel uncomfortable when they stumble upon other people getting it on. if i were to have sex in a public place like a park or a movie theater, i wouldn't want to get caught. in my opinion, sex in public is hot because it means you want it RIGHT THERE AND RIGHT THEN... not because it means you want to show off or shock people.

... i was jk, but anyway. i figure that most everyone has been fantasized about by a member of their own gender, and by a random stranger, and by a friend, etc. as long as you don't find the idea of anonymous people thinking sexual thoughts about you disturbing, i don't see why the gender of the person matters. it's not like you'll know who those people are. (unless you are making a website geared towards homosexuals in particular, and if you are doing that then i guess it means you don't have a problem with it!)

elementx, i don't know how long you've been working out or anything 'cause you didn't post in this thread... but how long have you been doing your current routine? i understand the desire to fully work out each body part, but it doesn't NECESSARILY have to take so long ... (unless you've already tried it) for all you know, a shorter workout could be just as effective. and as someone said, leave you time for more cardio.

"the one to marry" being a person who would make a good marriage partner for me? i think my current sig. other would. on the other hand, i'm not ready for marriage and won't be for years. i haven't proposed or anything. :]

only if they used dildos... 'cause then they'd REALLY be gay.

neither do most supermodels or movie stars, if you see 'em in person.

it just caught my eye. i dunno. maybe it's a coincidence...

... to search out sexxybabyd's posts and put a one-star rating next to all of them must be pretty damn boring. :]

who wants to date anyone who spends her life in chat rooms? but i guess that isn't the issue here. anyway, while what he's doing is foolish, it doesn't make him an ASS, necessarily... he's just insecure. if she falls for it, then at least he'll know.. but his time could probably be better spent trying to develop some confidence and self-esteem.

... is there any "next time" or do you immediately reject your prospective partner? ie, how long do you give a relationship that starts out with bad sex(ual activities, for those non-intercourse people out there) before you give up on it?

lol, there's a song called "My Love is Like Whoa" ?!

newt! <3

hey rackham, here's a good supplement to help with bulking. i think you should order a 33 lb bucket of it. ;]

what kind of body lotion do you use? how long have you used it for (is it an old favorite)? you you use it year-round, or only in winter? etcetcetc. i like Body Shop Body Butters... they're nice and subtle and not overly greasy. Mango and Olive Oil are extra yummy.

i know what you mean, but alas... life does not always follow porn. swinger's clubs might be more helpful, but i don't know anything about those so i can't offer advice really.

just started a new workout, 8-10 rep range. in a month and a half or so i'll go down to 6-8 range and do more sets... as for diet, i'm not doing any kind of cutting/bulking cycle... right now i'm just eating *slightly* below maintenance and trying to get in an adequate amount of protein...kinda... i'll probably reach my goal weight in a couple of months and then consider some kind of bulking thing.

you could try taking out a personals ad... on nerve.com, in the villagevoice, etc. at least that way you'll know ahead of time who's interested.

actually, i don't take anything anymore. i had a brief affair with GNC performance pro (?) chocolate 100% whey but that ended a few months ago. i should really take a multivitamin. i'm lazy about that.

i take throbbing hard man cock.