too many ppl mistake "routine" for "love"... yous may just be used to eachother and are scared to change that... every arguement shouldnt be an issue of whether or not yous are gonna break up, it should be an issue of "can we fix it?" i doubt me or anyone else on here can give ya the right answer, but in my opinion, i think the longer u wait, the worse its gonna get.... youll pick on him, hell pick on you, and yous are gonna make eachother miserable and become enemies... i aint sayin yous should break up, but u should do SOMETHING soon... i think the smurf has a point...absence DOES make the heart grow fonder.. i think u should give that a shot, and if not, then start considering ur other options