nyc - There is a simple answer to your question. If the guy means (and is telling the truth) that he doesnt ever like bjs in general, he's f@ked up. Loose him. If he tells you that he likes them, just not from you, then next time when you go down on him, say "baby, tell me if this is how you like it, I wanta do this right for you." If he wont tell you, loose dude. ... as the expression goes, you have to communicate in bed. No one wants fck a mime.