Yes. If ur a dude like me that never really breaks up with his xs ... we just go are separate ways and like it each other but dont wanta be solo anymore ... a whole diff dynamic evolves. A) When ur seeing someone, u watch ur words to save the situation. But when she aint ur giirl anymore, u can be so blunt .. and being blunt gets friggen hot sometimes. You say friggen everything, and you know everythig thats in their brain and they you. It can be such a turnon. It becomes more ... ego-driven playful .. you sort of wanta prove to each other that you and her are the hottest team, not u and some other chick or her and some other dude - you wanta prove everything, the sex, the way peeps look at you, is the bomb when u are her are a team