venusvixen

square??? some guy i went out with used to say that and it irritated me to no end, it's not the 70's anymore:rolleyes: furthermore just cuz zora didnt slut herself on natl tv doesn't make her a "square" she was genuine

suicide has always been an option for me...the anger and frustration of dealing with shitty people day in and day out and taking their crap...sometimes i just wish i could end it all

me too

didn't see her man i wish i had...i bought cd complilation, it wuz unreal

too cold

:laugh: don't they look stupid???

its amazes me that all the kids in school who would tease me when i was in grade school and high school for having naturally tan skin would be hatin now cuz they don't look "tan" bc the tan look is "in" now...how ironic:cool: i never thought i would hear somebody complain that they are too "white"

you're not a lost cause, you just know what you want...i went throught this a little while ago... I met this great guy, things seemed to be going well, you know in the beginning everything is perfect but then i started to feel stressed by all negative things going on in the relationship, most of the negativity coming from HIM, then I realized was it really worth it? Why must I be dragged down on account of him? I deserve better and i stopped everying like BAM, it was OVER! no questions! The hardest thing about dating is finding the right person you can click with, and in the beginning everyone "clicks" because both of you are trying so hard to make things work, but eventually people's true sides come out and you realize what a basket case you're stuck with and how it's affecting you negatively...dealing with being alone is never easy, but it's better than being stuck with someone who isn't right for you

submissive, aggressive guys usually come after me

i think GUYS have way more issues, they just don't talk about it

thanks:cool: sorry for the stereotype, i won't limit my comment to just guys only, since i date guys that's been my experience...true girls do the same thing, especially if they want to get rid of someone

guys, where does this get you in the end? especially the sob stories about how you're a great hero or wounded from all the made-up drama in your life? how insecure must you be to make up stories to impress your date?

Thank you so much for the best comment said about this drama i miss 99 SO much, real parties, real pple, good times there is no where in nyc right now that can compare:(

i used to not think so, but for the past year or so, he's grown up and now he's a "hottie"...those eyes

i prefer men with angular faces which is sexy and puppy eyes which is inviting, sex appeal and charm

yea, i think it is, esp when you hear what guys say and what they post in the message boards, they're all looking for their "blonde" match

no i absolutely hate it to me it's a cheap shot at telling me that since i'm not blonde/blue eyes i'm not exactly what's considered beautiful, so rather than tell me that i look beautiful, I'm exotic... it's very frustrating actually

oh my god i deal with this shit all the time as well! and yes it is always the scum of the earth that feel inclined to ask me out...and it makes me feel like shit that some *sshole with no teeth, nojob, criminal record, etc and when a guy im interested in asks me out, i'm fucking "exotic"

what about bein called exotic? wtf does that mean? sexy, cute what?

is incredible...

yeah, me too, i love that place def not your usual club trash

from personal experience, it never works out and what's keeping you two together and so attracted to each other is the fact that you dont have to committ to each other, that anything can happen to both of you and it will be ok once you're in a relationship all that will change and things that you once forgive that person for when you were unattached become unforgivable think twice before you take the risk of losing a friend