i have forgiven ppl at times, and it's a rare occasion.. but if someone close to me dicks me over, why should I forgive em? That hurts me more than if it's some random person, and if it's some random person i'm not so close with, fuck em, why should I forgive em anyways? That's a wakeup call to me to get ppl like that outta my life. And if it's a person close to me, I feel like I can't trust em anymore, and the friendship would never be the same, ever. trust is important, it's hard to earn anyways, and if you lose it from some shit, it's even harder to regain knowing you've already had it once... but then again, i'm stubborn as hell...