YES THEY DO... but its the beauty of it all... i just love how honestly EVERYONE or the maority of ppl can say something bad about one relationship and make it seem so bad.. but if you flip it around.. they were prob pretty fucked up as well... I DEF no i can say this... i just wish ppl werent always so selfish...
SHUT UP!! AT LEAST IT IS ANOTHER TOPIC TO POST ABOUT!! i hate when ppl complain about topics, its a message board... say anything and ppl respond.. why is there a thread about boobs.... and porn stars... it just is.. and it just gives shit to talk about
true... but they still get to feel and act that way as well. they may do it so you feel bad for them, maybe just to get to talk to you, maybe to get any kind of attention and whatnot, i mean you just never know someones intentions...
GIVING UP IS A GOOOOOD POINT.... but as a person that gave up once before... after a while if you know its not gunna work, you know... why waste time on something that you really dont want ... you may have wanted it at sometime but once your turned off and cold.. its kinda hard to turn you love back on... speccially if you have ben hurt or upset alot..
could be many.. it is all in the eye of the person... bad could mean any type of physical, mental, or psychological abuse or overly controling characteristics or even not caring enough or a cheater... bad is all in what a persons perception is... but if you have been in a "bad relationship" you tend to know
YES i agree with that but i just dont like when ppl (even i have done it) act like it was so bad and only happened to them.. and it was such a unique situation.. ya no ? I just think sometimes ppl suck together.. and move on... notice similar behaviors.. a friendly boot...
ok... convo i had with some ppl last night... some input on the board perhaps to which theory/situation seems more true. ok.. so my one good friend and i each had one bad relationship recently... i mean they were both ended before the summer, but anyone who was ever in a bad relationship knows how the feelings tend to drag on and linger... NOW we always say that we have changed due to the situations were in and bla bla bla. WELL, I came up with this theory kinda that EVERYONE has a bad relationship at one point. That X may not be completely awful but the two of you together didnt work. I think when ppl thrive on situations and blame them for a lot of the bad things that have happened it doesnt do anything. EVERYONE could cry and bitch and whine about what one of there EXs did.. but its the ppl that can truely get over it that grow and change. Not the ppl who just blame the relationship for their actions or choices. Is that true of do you think that bad relationships always will hold a place in your heart and will never be forgoten????
ALSO another bit of my .02 MOST PEOPLE DON'T SHOARE HAPPY THINGS WITH YOU!!! for instance i did not call my best friends every time my X brought me a flower or took me out to dinner or said someting that made me smile or went out of his way for me. (at the beginging yes, but fter that it is kinda expected) HOWEVER every time i was crying or everytime i wanted to kill him and needed input or consoling... I did NOT hesitate to call the girls. SOOO to get to my point here. You do not hear all of what goes on between two ppl so you can't really judge whether they are turly in love or not. And also if they actually do belong together. AND ALSO if he does even worse shit to her. You never know the whole situation... NEVER!
1. I don't have any pics 2. If I did I would not post them on ClubPlanet. 3. I think you are going to need a better approach. (ex. PM's saying... "you know I won't show anyone I promise") This will not work for me but I know there are prob a few Newbies to fall for that!