I mean i know love and marriage is work, don't get me wrong but you gotta have the right partner... Like if they were really in love and happy and wanting to be together, the wieght or money wouldnt ever be a big issue. But when attitudes change and bitterness forms.. no HOLDING ON or HOPING for the past will do, CUT IT OFF before its too late... I may be kinda young...but im not getting younger.. why waste the future with a person that wont stimulate you anymore mentally or physically when there are prob 10 other ppl you could have met in that time period!! and you will have more fun doing that that being MISERRAAABBLLEE!