I won't bother bitching. Nobody will listen. If your girlfriend is bitching, you need to either handle your business or get rid of her. Cold weather/job, move to a warmer place. Take up scuba diving and get master certification, become an instructor at some resort. Life is too short people. If something isn't working, don't continue doing it. Only the insane do that. CHANGE. For better or worse, but CHANGE something. Here are a bunch of people that don't bitch.... From the cradle to the Grave. What happens in between is up to you.