dafunkadelic Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 Me and my girl split up a few weeks ago...I just can't seem to overcome her..although I had some pretty sugestive posts... I had a hard time at work ( negotiations and a terrible meeting with someone we had to discharge) and when I turned the key, my house didn't seem to be a home.Made some diner for one and tortured myself with some crazy thoughts from the past... I know I've got to walk on...but today's just one of those days!!All I need right now is a body to keep myself warm, beautifull eyes that look at me, and a sweet voice to put my mind at ease..and 7 hours of sleep...atleast. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 yes I have had them on several occasions....Since you guys only did break up quite recently, the feelings and longings of having someone will still be there...but at the same time I'm sure you were doing fine and enjoying your single time hun. It could be just one fo those days...I dont get why, but sometimes I slip into that mode as well..could it be a chemical imbalance that many of us humans have? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 I'm sorry you're feeling the "Sting" of the breakup so much , Misch... It comes and goes, but when it comes, it's like a ball of fire blasting through the heart I've been there too, and of all things, it was with the girl i am currently with now. We came to understand why we broke up in the first place, and are now taking things slowly. But I am still careful, knowing things can end just like that.I hope your trip away from mundane reality in Holland helps to cure the pain When i took that trip to Belgium, it was much easier to forget about those hurtful thoughts and try to create new ones. Just try to be distracted and keep busy doing things. Call up old friends. Go outside. Stay fresh, and who knows what may happen.Oh, i also find writing thoughts down on paper to help... u don't have to be a poet, just let the thoughts roll off your finger... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jy Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 yeah i'm going through that right now actually. Today was just an off day i guess, everyone seemed so distant, life just seemed fuzzy and it felt like i was floating above everyone just staring down and not being seen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dafunkadelic Posted April 23 Author Report Share Posted April 23 Originally posted by fierydesire yes I have had them on several occasions....Since you guys only did break up quite recently, the feelings and longings of having someone will still be there...but at the same time I'm sure you were doing fine and enjoying your single time hun. It could be just one fo those days...I dont get why, but sometimes I slip into that mode as well..could it be a chemical imbalance that many of us humans have? It sure seems that way. It's that chemical imbalance that also makes us switch to the opposite site...meaning....making "love" to a perfect stranger...just because she makes you feel warm inside..... Here's another confession, I thought about letting it all go and make "love" to everybody that propose, but then I turned mushy and promissed myself to never go that disrespectfull on a lady again, no matter how high her intellect is.Help!!! I've just hit another crossroad... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 Originally posted by dafunkadelic All I need right now is a body to keep myself warm, beautifull eyes that look at me, and a sweet voice to put my mind at ease.Are you hitting on me?J/K - this thread is kind of bummy...but real, nonetheless...The time between these days will increase and before you know it someone else will be in your life. Dont try to substitute but enjoy other things in your life: friends, family, music, etc. - just dont do anything foolish and know that you have friends here on the board that have been there and will continue to be there - even if you just need a place to vent... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dafunkadelic Posted April 23 Author Report Share Posted April 23 Originally posted by jy yeah i'm going through that right now actually. Today was just an off day i guess, everyone seemed so distant, life just seemed fuzzy and it felt like i was floating above everyone just staring down and not being seen. Seems a big CP hug is in place.....And George, I love poetry....and facing my feelings by writing them down or even speak about them to you guys helps a lot...I'm just honest right now...because a lie sepperated us.I"m just in need of some fresh food for thought ....and NYC seems to be a supermarket. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingartur Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 Originally posted by dafunkadelic Me and my girl split up a few weeks ago...I just can't seem to overcome her..although I had some pretty sugestive posts... I had a hard time at work ( negotiations and a terrible meeting with someone we had to discharge) and when I turned the key, my house didn't seem to be a home.Made some diner for one and tortured myself with some crazy thoughts from the past... I know I've got to walk on...but today's just one of those days!!All I need right now is a body to keep myself warm, beautifull eyes that look at me, and a sweet voice to put my mind at ease..and 7 hours of sleep...atleast. I had those feeling after i broke up with my ex. Had a hard time gettting over her, but time heals all wounds:blank: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 Originally posted by dafunkadelic It sure seems that way. It's that chemical imbalance that also makes us switch to the opposite site...meaning....making "love" to a perfect stranger...just because she makes you feel warm inside..... Here's another confession, I thought about letting it all go and make "love" to everybody that propose, but then I turned mushy and promissed myself to never go that disrespectfull on a lady again, no matter how high her intellect is.Help!!! I've just hit another crossroad... awww hugs babes I would take what gmc says..I always find writing to be beneficial...it lets all ur feelings out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dafunkadelic Posted April 24 Author Report Share Posted April 24 Originally posted by fierydesire awww hugs babes I would take what gmc says..I always find writing to be beneficial...it lets all ur feelings out Thanks Z, and all others.....it just hit me yesterday..and it might happen again....but I desided to consentrate myself on my trip to NYC.The first thing I'll do when we meet (probably at Exit on the 3rd) is buy all of you a drink...Thanks once again....I somehow needed this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted April 24 Report Share Posted April 24 i used to be so upset about breaking up with my most recent ex (i guess we always are)... i had the feeling that it was meant to be between us and losing him was like losing a best friend, a best friend who i shared everything with and lived with. the funny thing is that now i look back and i see that we werent best friends , we werent even friends... if we were we would continue to give a shit about eachother but we dont, we dont communicate at all & i dont plan on it (hope i dont curse myself & run into him somewhere).i have been seeing some new guys. these days i dont even have a thought about the ex. there are so many guys out there... the one i have been getting kinda serious with blows my ex away in so many ways...if i was still with him i would be missing out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jy Posted April 24 Report Share Posted April 24 i'm glad you're slowly getting over it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mssabina Posted April 24 Report Share Posted April 24 remember, time heals pain and everything else...just make sure to get lots of hugs from other people you love and everything will be all better hey, you're comin to AVB? yeay, new CPer to meet! btw, we all ARE having a meetup that night, right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted April 24 Report Share Posted April 24 Originally posted by mssabina hey, you're comin to AVB? yeay, new CPer to meet! btw, we all ARE having a meetup that night, right? I sure hope so! I want to claim my free brewski from DaFunk :tongue: BTW... I think the meetup is BTW 130 and 200 at the main bar by the coat check. We BETTER have a meetup, EXIT is HuuuuuuuuGe:blank: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dafunkadelic Posted April 25 Author Report Share Posted April 25 Originally posted by gmccookny I sure hope so! I want to claim my free brewski from DaFunk :tongue: BTW... I think the meetup is BTW 130 and 200 at the main bar by the coat check. We BETTER have a meetup, EXIT is HuuuuuuuuGe:blank: Damn George, I hope you like bubbles ' cause it's going to rain champagne.All that know me are invited, bring some happy, funky people with you and Armin will do the rest!!MsSabina, I would love to meet you, I'm so in to party my little ass off...just one more night and I'll be aboard the KL643, woohoo!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.