kidnyce Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 the dreaded F word...sorry but if I was lookin for a friendship it wouldnt be with a girl...thoughts...guys and girls... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phuturephunk Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 . . . oh brother . . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 when a girl is acting resistant or says she wants to "get to know me" for a while before she will sleep with me or you are on the verge of "let´s just be friends" land you have 2 choices:a) be direct, like "sorry, but i can´t see you just as a friend" or jerklike "if you want a friend get a dog". works better the more value you demonstrated. lay on the sweet talk, like[girlsname], it is not in my nature to experience things only partially. i am a bon vivant; i like to live well, and i need to experience everything in its entirety. if i travel to another country, i don't stay on the tourist track; i can't help but immerse myself fully into the culture - to absorb it through my skin, to breathe it, to live it, to fade into it. or for another example, wine - you, [girlsname], are like a fine wine of the rarest vintage. i can't be content with just looking at you. i absolutely must experience this wine on all levels. i need to smell it, to draw in the exquisite bouquet, to carefully observe its clarity and color, its texture and nuance. and finally, i must drink it all in, savoring every drop, tasting it, experiencing it, breathing it, living it, fading into it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 i could comment on this topic in so many ways....but I won't... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quoth Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 Originally posted by kidnyce the dreaded F word...sorry but if I was lookin for a friendship it wouldnt be with a girl...thoughts...guys and girls... YOU MY FRIEND, need to meet my sand nigger friend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 i usually dont bother with males i have no interest in romantically, i know, in most cases, they are only hanging out with me in hopes of getting some, so it's pointless. i have told people i only wanna be friends but sometimes i just wanna see how they react to it, if they react badly ill be on my way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 Originally posted by somebitch i usually dont bother with males i have no interest in romantically, i know, in most cases, they are only hanging out with me in hopes of getting some, so it's pointless. i have told people i only wanna be friends but sometimes i just wanna see how they react to it, if they react badly ill be on my way. haha gotta love shit-testing, i soooo love it. same shit when girls test your authority in front of a group, if you´ll remain alpha or get beta.define "bad" reaction? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 Originally posted by tastey haha gotta love shit-testing, i soooo love it. same shit when girls test your authority in front of a group, if you´ll remain alpha or get beta.define "bad" reaction? bad reaction = I don't need any more "girl friends" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoke Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 I like having girl friends. They give me hugs and affection. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phuturephunk Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 . . . There's sooo many shades of grey in this argument . . .It's almost impossible to tackle in a forum such as this . .. Tastey: All though that line had all the smoothness of An Aston Martin driving through the Black Forest, most chicks are gonna pick it up for the bullshit it is . . . And the ones who don't, well . . If you stop and think about it, you probably wouldn't have had to try that hard anyways . . Somebitch: I never got that birthday doobie . . . . . . Why aren't you online anymore? . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 This is so ironic...same situation I am dealing with now...Met this guy a month ago...he is laying it thick with the sweet talk and constantly drops hints about me being exclusive with him...then half an hour later, will say something like "i hope you and i will become very good friends"...am i misunderstand him or is this bullshit? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 anytime mike sassa: maybe he is just saying he wants to be friends on top of all the other shit that comes along with being in a relationship. the best relationships are built on friendship... if a guy said that to me i would take it as a compliment but on the other hand, you have to lay down some ground rules otherwise you wont know where you stand. you dont wanna think things are more serious than they really are. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 I've had the reverse pulled on me... some guy tries to hit on me, I blow him off, and he says "but we can just be friends!" Whatever dude. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmikedr Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 Originally posted by hoke I like having girl friends. They give me hugs and affection. Word! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 Originally posted by sassa This is so ironic...same situation I am dealing with now...Met this guy a month ago...he is laying it thick with the sweet talk and constantly drops hints about me being exclusive with him...then half an hour later, will say something like "i hope you and i will become very good friends"...am i misunderstand him or is this bullshit? bullshithe´s playing "hot and cold"playing "hot and cold" is cruel, i can tell from experience. a girl once did it on me and it drove me nuts cause i didn´t see a pattern in the beginning. i was curious why i was so attracted to her and tried to analyse her behaviour which resulted in that "hot and cold" pattern. like she would be all over me one time and all cold towards me another time. cruel but effective. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 Originally posted by phuturephunk Tastey: All though that line had all the smoothness of An Aston Martin driving through the Black Forest, most chicks are gonna pick it up for the bullshit it is . . . And the ones who don't, well . . If you stop and think about it, you probably wouldn't have had to try that hard anyways . . first of all, women WANT to be seduced, all of them. by the right man that is. that is why they dig sweet talk so much, they want you to verbalize your desire for them, they want to feel wanted, needed, desired, etc.second, some women (see somebitch) put it up as a test to see your reaction. and i bet i definately wouldn´t get a bad reaction for this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 Originally posted by tastey bullshithe´s playing "hot and cold"playing "hot and cold" is cruel, i can tell from experience. a girl once did it on me and it drove me nuts cause i didn´t see a pattern in the beginning. i was curious why i was so attracted to her and tried to analyse her behaviour which resulted in that "hot and cold" pattern. like she would be all over me one time and all cold towards me another time. cruel but effective. in that case, would you suggest telling him to fuck off Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted June 24 Report Share Posted June 24 I like havin guy friends...I've had the same best guy friend for the past 6 years..I'm friends still with some ex's...sometimes theres just things that I find that my guy friends would give me better advice on...Some of them are just more fun to just hang out with too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted June 25 Report Share Posted June 25 Originally posted by sassa in that case, would you suggest telling him to fuck off anger = weaknesseither call him on itORget him to commit to you, start with little things and go bigger and bigger each time. what i mean by that is a technique from sales (if you read the cialdini book on influence you´ll know what i´m talking about) that works wonders in human interaction. get him to commit (speak out loud) little things, HOOK his interest. for example "we seem to really enjoy each other´s company, don´t we?" then get him to verbally agree (=confirm), "wow we´re obviously hitting it off well" and get him to agree. or "you know i really enjoy talking to you" and get him to confirm that HE DOES TOO. when people make a commitment they will very likely stay congruent to it (they will stay by it) and will in the end get more committed (=attached) to you. i know a guy that has that down to the bone and he gets laid like a bunny in spring time. he hooks every LITTLE bit of interest a girl shows towards him and gets her to verbally commit to this interest (in him). gotta love psychology Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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