dnice35 Posted October 15 Report Share Posted October 15 without being a total dick I mean..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acura Posted October 15 Report Share Posted October 15 Originally posted by dnice35 without being a total dick I mean..... Probably not possible. Some people need to be informed , and pretty blatantly at that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrmatas2277 Posted October 15 Report Share Posted October 15 Originally posted by dnice35 without being a total dick I mean..... lose her at "The All You Can Eat Buffet"... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mssabina Posted October 15 Report Share Posted October 15 i wouldn't worry about being a dick to a stalker...just get rid of 'em... i'd make sure they don't have psychotic tendancies first... then tell them to fuck off Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ou812 Posted October 15 Report Share Posted October 15 I think the key is to be delicateBut firm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
t0nythelover Posted October 15 Report Share Posted October 15 Originally posted by dnice35 without being a total dick I mean..... restraining order...nuff said. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxyme Posted October 15 Report Share Posted October 15 Originally posted by ou812 I think the key is to be delicateBut firm I AGREE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdancer Posted October 16 Report Share Posted October 16 DISAPPEAR, HIDE, HIDE, CRAWL UNDER A ROCK! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trueqwest Posted October 16 Report Share Posted October 16 There's no negotiating with a stalker, I unfortunately have one myself. Think about it...the person is probably obsessed, is sacrificing time at work and at home to follow you, probably loses appetite and sleep over you, and maybe even has voice mails and emails from you, no matter how innocent, from a year ago that he/she listens to at least 5 times a day. Do you think this is a person that will get a clue?Trust me, there's no substitute to being firm, direct, and if need be, rude. It'll save you from becoming a front page story in the Daily News 6 months from now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxyme Posted October 16 Report Share Posted October 16 Originally posted by trueqwest There's no negotiating with a stalker, I unfortunately have one myself. Think about it...the person is probably obsessed, is sacrificing time at work and at home to follow you, probably loses appetite and sleep over you, and maybe even has voice mails and emails from you, no matter how innocent, from a year ago that he/she listens to at least 5 times a day. Do you think this is a person that will get a clue?Trust me, there's no substitute to being firm, direct, and if need be, rude. It'll save you from becoming a front page story in the Daily News 6 months from now. Poor little stalker person..all this for you...!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintron Posted October 16 Report Share Posted October 16 talk to them, pretend interest, offer to meet up for dinner, get them face to face...and then bring a baseball bat to the meetng. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxyme Posted October 16 Report Share Posted October 16 Originally posted by cintron talk to them, pretend interest, offer to meet up for dinner, get them face to face...and then bring a baseball bat to the meetng. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dnice35 Posted October 16 Author Report Share Posted October 16 :laugh: I love all these ideas.... specially the bat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 jeez...i am a stalker magnet and you CAN'T be nice--they do NOT get the clue, they just keep trying and trying and trying...restaining orders or just being downright mean if you have to--you have to be very clear that it is OVER and there is NO reason for you to talk, etc...stalkers suck. i am gonna try the things you guys suggested with the bat and the gun next time, lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quoth Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 Originally posted by suthrnbelle jeez...i am a stalker magnet cooooooool, cause i am a refrigerator. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acura Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 Originally posted by quoth cooooooool, cause i am a refrigerator. LMFAO Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 haha. getting rid of a stalker is tough. i dont think you should worry about coming off as a total dick because if the person is really up your ass, you have to be up front or they wont get the hint. i also know that usually with these types, no matter what you say, it is for some reason an attraction. so if you tell her to fuck off she will probably be up your ass even more. i would say completely ignore the person but then they "need closure". i actually have this one kid who doesnt stalk me but wont go away. he will fuck off for a week at a time. this is how i am going to go about getting rid of him: when he calls tell him im busy. when he msgs on the computer, dont respond. if he shows up at my place, im gonna tell him i have other things going on. make yourself completely unavailable, they will get bored of trying eventually and move on. i think this is your best bet. no gurantee though, i have been trying this route for months with mine (hes not even a hardcore stalker) and he still doesnt get the hint. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quoth Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 Originally posted by somebitch i have been trying this route for months with mine (hes not even a hardcore stalker) and he still doesnt get the hint. damn....you must be some finnnnnnnnnnnne piece of ass if he is still bothering you months later...Did u by chance meet him while going "on the prowl" together? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 Originally posted by quoth cooooooool, cause i am a refrigerator. :laugh: *mwah* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dnice35 Posted October 18 Author Report Share Posted October 18 Originally posted by quoth cooooooool, cause i am a refrigerator. :laugh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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