voluptuary Posted December 28 Report Share Posted December 28 CP ladies, help me out with this:You're in a crowded club or bar, and you see a guy that interests you. How do you get his attention so that he'll approach and talk to you?I've noticed this thing that women will do where they will stand right next to a guy with her back turned completely toward him.... and sometimes, if it's crowded enough, will sort of very gently back up into him. Am I imagining this or what? Is this something that you do or have ever done? I thought this was interesting because a guy's method is totally different. A guy has a more direct -- face, make eye contact, fix your gaze, smile -- approach. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxyh Posted December 29 Report Share Posted December 29 ~~depends on the situation.....sometimes i may use the direct approach sometimes the "accidentally-bump-into-the-guy" approach...sometimes other methods Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bebby Posted December 29 Report Share Posted December 29 I don't have an "approach". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxyh Posted December 29 Report Share Posted December 29 Originally posted by bebby6919 I don't have an "approach". ~~yea u do! everyone does Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bebby Posted December 29 Report Share Posted December 29 Originally posted by sexxyh ~~yea u do! everyone does I really don't tho... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
erica127 Posted December 29 Report Share Posted December 29 i actually don't have an approach cuz i seriously am shy when it comes to a guy that i think is cute & wanna talk to him..so i just wait & hope he comes over to me...that's my lil approach Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bebby Posted December 29 Report Share Posted December 29 Originally posted by erica127 i actually don't have an approach cuz i seriously am shy when it comes to a guy that i think is cute & wanna talk to him..so i just wait & hope he comes over to me...that's my lil approach lol.. same here... told you Helen hehe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted December 29 Report Share Posted December 29 i never approach guys, guys always approach me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted December 29 Report Share Posted December 29 stop telling everyone how we met bebe... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted December 29 Report Share Posted December 29 LOL- I really don't like touching anyone before at least a simple "hello" has been exchanged. Either that or skip the hello and go straight into how great the music or the party is. It usually just flows from there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicapples Posted December 29 Report Share Posted December 29 wouldnt it be nice if a girl just came up to a guy and said... "hey what ya drinking?" -her"coke on the rocks!" -him"ooo... the sweet guy who makes sure all his boys get home safe" -her"yeaps" -himand then a connection is made. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koky Posted December 29 Report Share Posted December 29 Originally posted by voluptuary CP ladies, help me out with this:You're in a crowded club or bar, and you see a guy that interests you. How do you get his attention so that he'll approach and talk to you?I've noticed this thing that women will do where they will stand right next to a guy with her back turned completely toward him.... and sometimes, if it's crowded enough, will sort of very gently back up into him. Am I imagining this or what? Is this something that you do or have ever done? I thought this was interesting because a guy's method is totally different. A guy has a more direct -- face, make eye contact, fix your gaze, smile -- approach. holy shit !! i thought it was just my imagination also .. girls do that backing up thing to me all the time i thought it was just accidental but now i see im not the only one it happens to.. usually when i see a girl i like i just make eye contact & see the reaction.. then if the reaction was good ill just make some kind of conversation about the music or something of that nature .. but gotta be pleasant about it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
digital7 Posted December 29 Report Share Posted December 29 stop lying Koky... hehehe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonStephen Posted December 29 Report Share Posted December 29 Originally posted by voluptuary CP ladies, help me out with this:You're in a crowded club or bar, and you see a guy that interests you. How do you get his attention so that he'll approach and talk to you?I've noticed this thing that women will do where they will stand right next to a guy with her back turned completely toward him.... and sometimes, if it's crowded enough, will sort of very gently back up into him. Am I imagining this or what? Is this something that you do or have ever done? I thought this was interesting because a guy's method is totally different. A guy has a more direct -- face, make eye contact, fix your gaze, smile -- approach. This is definately true.......this shit happens all the time. Its like the thing women do to AVOID using pick up lines. I don't know, its kinda a weird way to get me to talk. I like the good ole eye contact a whole lot better......if you want me to come over, give me some sort of signal.I do hate cheesy lines thoughThe most common lines I hear are:You know what time it is?Can I bum a cigarette? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted December 29 Report Share Posted December 29 Originally posted by atomicapples wouldnt it be nice if a girl just came up to a guy and said... "hey what ya drinking?" -her"coke on the rocks!" -him"ooo... the sweet guy who makes sure all his boys get home safe" -her"yeaps" -himand then a connection is made. nah thats gay... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kelly0616 Posted December 30 Report Share Posted December 30 I wait for them to talk to me.....sometimes ill give an eye but im shyy;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted December 30 Report Share Posted December 30 Originally posted by voluptuary CP ladies, help me out with this:You're in a crowded club or bar, and you see a guy that interests you. How do you get his attention so that he'll approach and talk to you?I've noticed this thing that women will do where they will stand right next to a guy with her back turned completely toward him.... and sometimes, if it's crowded enough, will sort of very gently back up into him. Am I imagining this or what? Is this something that you do or have ever done? I thought this was interesting because a guy's method is totally different. A guy has a more direct -- face, make eye contact, fix your gaze, smile -- approach. Depends o the girl and the place. If you are in a super crowded place, sometimes it happens. I usually prefer to be more direct about it. Usually I will will make eye contact, I am always smiling like the chesire cat, and and and you let him know that you want to talk to him... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
psychosweetie Posted December 30 Report Share Posted December 30 Originally posted by voluptuary CP ladies, help me out with this:You're in a crowded club or bar, and you see a guy that interests you. How do you get his attention so that he'll approach and talk to you?I've noticed this thing that women will do where they will stand right next to a guy with her back turned completely toward him.... and sometimes, if it's crowded enough, will sort of very gently back up into him. Am I imagining this or what? Is this something that you do or have ever done? I thought this was interesting because a guy's method is totally different. A guy has a more direct -- face, make eye contact, fix your gaze, smile -- approach. Girls definitely do this! Me and my friends call it positioning Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koky Posted December 30 Report Share Posted December 30 Originally posted by digital7 stop lying Koky... hehehe :D danny stop stalking me .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
voluptuary Posted December 30 Author Report Share Posted December 30 So I guess I'm not imagining this all. Sometimes it's not even a back up, but just a positioning very close, but with the back turned toward you.My next question: How long do you wait for him to take the bait before you move on? Not just in the situation we've discussed, but in the common scenario where eye contact and maybe a smile is exchanged. And to you shy girls.....do you really remain that passive...you see a guy you like and it's...stare into space, cross your fingers and give a silent prayer. You really do absolutely nothing? Remember, we're not talking about a literal approach where you walk up to him and introduce yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acura Posted December 30 Report Share Posted December 30 Originally posted by bebby6919 lol.. same here... told you Helen hehe You don't have an approach? Interesting....... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bebby Posted December 30 Report Share Posted December 30 Originally posted by legend38 You don't have an approach? Interesting....... Ok, so you are my ONE exception. But thats not really considered an approach. Plus this thread is about approaches in a bar/club. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acura Posted December 31 Report Share Posted December 31 Originally posted by bebby6919 Ok, so you are my ONE exception. But thats not really considered an approach. Plus this thread is about approaches in a bar/club. An approach is an approach, dont listen to her ladies!And techincally you did approach me at roxy........ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ronin Posted December 31 Report Share Posted December 31 Originally posted by legend38 An approach is an approach, dont listen to her ladies!And techincally you did approach me at roxy........ she approached me and i introduced you. lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acura Posted December 31 Report Share Posted December 31 Originally posted by roninmess she approached me and i introduced you. lol AHA word, so that is two guys she approached. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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