weyes Posted January 14 Report Share Posted January 14 it was night, on new year's day.there had just been so much drama about this new year's day night party, resentment building up between all of us friends; i just thought i needed to sit out a bit and i'd be ok. i told my friends i'd be sitting against the wall of the club, and i left the dancefloor.but i found myself not really hearing the music anymore - just overwhelmed by being upset about the night's events and what they meant in the greater scheme of things. and i started to cry.after a little bit, the only one who came out with us who i didn't really know (i'd only met him once) came over to me and asked if i was ok. i didn't want him to see i was crying, so i sort of looked away and tried to give him quick "yes"es. he at least noticed i was down, though, and he said, "did you get your new year's kiss?""no," i said. and i thought it'd just be one to comfort me, or to be nice. but it seemed like he was going for more than just the simple kiss with which i kissed back.everything sexual/romantic is really important to me; i don't take or do anything lightly. i didn't really wanna kiss him 'cause i wasn't so incredibly attracted to him. but he's a really genuine, nice guy, and i like that about him very much. and i just got all confused ... was i rethinking him because he's such a cool guy? or was it because i knew he'd be a good kisser and he had the softest-lips-omigod ? or was it because i hadn't kissed someone in a while and it just felt so good to be kissed? and should i be rethinking it at all; if it's not automatically clear to me, does that mean that i shouldn't pursue it or that it wouldn't be fair to start something i might not wanna finish (i'm not sure about him, obviously)?i'm going to see deep dish on friday with some friends, including him. i dunno if i'm "freaked out," exactly, but definitely lost . does anyone have any thoughts? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mala Posted January 14 Report Share Posted January 14 Hmm...if I was you, I would wait until Friday to see what kind of vibe he is sending out to you. Maybe it was one of those heat of the moment type deals, maybe it was something more. It will be easier to gauge his feelings when you are face-to-face with this dude. It's best not to overanalyze because it only makes you even crazier. Easier said than done, I know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trueqwest Posted January 14 Report Share Posted January 14 I am the master of over analysis in situations like this (damn, why'd i have to be a typical Libra) and let me tell you, I'd worry myself sick if I were in my situation. No one except the two of you would really know what happened, and there are way too many variables to consider rational thought- was he drunk/on anything, were you drunk/on anything, your situation with friends, his unknown situation, heat of the moment, taking advantage of a situation, stellar alignment, etc. Just go to Deep Dish with the only expectation being to hear good music that you're paying for. See what happens. Maybe nothing. Or maybe you just found your future mate in life. Let me know what happens. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted January 14 Report Share Posted January 14 Originally posted by trueqwest Just go to Deep Dish with the only expectation being to hear good music that you're paying for. See what happens. Maybe nothing. Or maybe you just found your future mate in life. Let me know what happens. YEah, listen to what this guy says it's important to not set yourself up for too high expectations, or else you may live in an illusion until the deciding day arrives. ANd if you don't get what you thought you would get, you'll be down in the dumps listening to radiohead and soul asylum I think that you need to focus on THAT MOMENT, weyes, and enjoy it for what it was. Like TrueQ said... it might only have been that time, or it might be the right guy.... only time will tell,....Oh, and don't worry about those "new Years kisses"... it's way overhyped Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted January 14 Report Share Posted January 14 Originally posted by mala Hmm...if I was you, I would wait until Friday to see what kind of vibe he is sending out to you. Maybe it was one of those heat of the moment type deals, maybe it was something more. It will be easier to gauge his feelings when you are face-to-face with this dude. It's best not to overanalyze because it only makes you even crazier. Easier said than done, I know. i agree...wait and see how you feel when you see him in a different light/situation...and then give us the full report Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weyes Posted January 15 Author Report Share Posted January 15 thanks so much, everyone . i'll give a reply after friday to let y'all know how everything went. and in the meantime, i'm taking your advice and trying my best to just relax and not overthink it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted January 15 Report Share Posted January 15 damn women do analyze shit too muchjust let things happen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trueqwest Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 Not to change the subject or take the topic away from Weyes, but here's the continued discussion from earlier...Is Nympho69 a guy or girl? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elementx Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 Originally posted by trueqwest Not to change the subject or take the topic away from Weyes, but here's the continued discussion from earlier...Is Nympho69 a guy or girl? Certainly thinks like a guy! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 Originally posted by trueqwest Not to change the subject or take the topic away from Weyes, but here's the continued discussion from earlier...Is Nympho69 a guy or girl? \hmmmm I dont know Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 never kiss a fool and never be fooled by a kiss Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 Originally posted by elementx Certainly thinks like a guy! omg i find it hilarious that people are constantly mistaking me for a man because of my postswell to answer the question i was born with a pussy but people always say i think like a mandamn is that an insult or a compliment?im not surebut i think the best term to describe me is a cunty bitchi'm in a category of my ownps. maybe its my strap on that has led to the confusion Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trueqwest Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 Originally posted by nympho69 i was born with a pussy but people always say i think like a manbut i think the best term to describe me is a cunty bitchi'm in a category of my ownps. maybe its my strap on that has led to the confusion LOL, Cunty bitch...that's too damn funny, lol:laugh: Hmmn, Born with a pussy but thinks like a man...I'VE JUST FOUND THE WOMAN OF MY DREAMS!!! I have got to meet you...Hey, can I buy you a drink??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trueqwest Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 Oh yeah...WEYES---Have fun tonight...enjoy Deep Dish, I want to hear all about it. Expect nothing but a good time with friends. My hope for you is to be pleasantly surprised. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scaredgirl Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 weyes is a nice storie after all i like it i think im with suthrnbell in this keep us UPDATE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 Originally posted by scaredgirl weyes is a nice storie after all i like it i think im with suthrnbell in this keep us UPDATE wanna play the nipple game?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 Originally posted by mala Hmm...if I was you, I would wait until Friday to see what kind of vibe he is sending out to you. Maybe it was one of those heat of the moment type deals, maybe it was something more. It will be easier to gauge his feelings when you are face-to-face with this dude. It's best not to overanalyze because it only makes you even crazier. Easier said than done, I know. It's much easier to tell when you are in person....Maybe there is something there, maybe not.... Sometimes things just seem like a good idea at that moment in time.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 Originally posted by trueqwest LOL, Cunty bitch...that's too damn funny, lol:laugh: Hmmn, Born with a pussy but thinks like a man...I'VE JUST FOUND THE WOMAN OF MY DREAMS!!! I have got to meet you...Hey, can I buy you a drink??? sure let's have a beer and watch some football Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elementx Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 Originally posted by nympho69 sure let's have a beer and watch some football I think I am in love... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trueqwest Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 Originally posted by elementx I think I am in love... Sorry dude, I asked her first. Better luck next time...Hey nympho, where do you live? Just wondering what my road trip situation will look like...and where was that pic taken? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 Originally posted by trueqwest Sorry dude, I asked her first. Better luck next time...Hey nympho, where do you live? Just wondering what my road trip situation will look like...and where was that pic taken? same location as uwhy cant we all watch the game together? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trueqwest Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 Originally posted by nympho69 same location as uwhy cant we all watch the game together? want to turn this into a group get together? PM me and I'll make plans for all of us...something this Sunday, perhaps? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elementx Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 Originally posted by trueqwest want to turn this into a group get together? PM me and I'll make plans for all of us...something this Sunday, perhaps? Where in Jersey are you ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 Originally posted by trueqwest want to turn this into a group get together? PM me and I'll make plans for all of us...something this Sunday, perhaps? are we watching football or playing football? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 Originally posted by elementx Where in Jersey are you ... yeah where in jersey are u?im right by the lincoln tunnel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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