dgmodel Posted September 7 Report Share Posted September 7 if birds of a feather flock together... and when ppl meet someone new they typically say " wow we have so much in common " and in the securities industry they say you acquire clients that resemble you... then do opposites really attract??? im going to have to go with no... ppl attract a certain demographic or certain type of person because thats how they portray themselves... so if you attract crazy ppl, chances are you are crazy... if you attract guys who only want to fuck you chances are you portray yourself as a girl who only wants to fuck... if you attract guys who are assholes chances are youre a bitch... its a weird thing to fathom, its even weirder to write but i think its true... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted September 7 Report Share Posted September 7 yes opposites do and can attract.....but that doesnt mean that it will make a good relationship!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anotherway83 Posted September 7 Report Share Posted September 7 agree with dgmodel....it just sounds cool to say 'opposites attract'...but in reality ppl. seek out ppl. like themselves Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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koky Posted September 7 Report Share Posted September 7 Originally posted by fliptoniaaa yes opposites do and can attract.....but that doesnt mean that it will make a good relationship!!!!!!! truuuuuuuu i agree ... my last relationship was kinda like that .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted September 7 Report Share Posted September 7 i don't think i've ever attracted a true opposite.professions, personalities, etc may vary....but there always has to be certain shared characterisitics that bind us together. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 Originally posted by marcid21 i don't think i've ever attracted a true opposite.professions, personalities, etc may vary....but there always has to be certain shared characterisitics that bind us together. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funks0ul Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 I think that some opposites can attract, but you still need a common ground, cause if you were totally different and opposite, too much conflict and arguing. But then if you were too alike, I see it as getting boring fast. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kontrol Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 who gives a fuck? if you like a person and they like you then youre set...shut the fuck up with this mindless shit plz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daemoncel Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 Originally posted by Kontrol who gives a fuck? if you like a person and they like you then youre set...shut the fuck up with this mindless shit plz n00b Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigsteve8 Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 Opposites suck. . . I went out on a date with a girl, we ended up sharing practically nothing. . .was impossible to find a common ground, made tough to talk about anything. . . it's fine to have a few things not in common, but the more you can get the better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guest00901 Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 They do to a certain extent....From personal experience...it's all fine and dandy until shit hits the fan and you get comfortable with the other person and you or them are doing things that the other one can't stand...Usually it's good to stick with people who share the same interests...makes the relationship a lot less hetic Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bullseye Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 lets get real, we're all opposites of everyone else no matter who we are dating. its stupid when ppl say their bf or gf or so different from them, duh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 for awhile Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 Originally posted by marcid21 i don't think i've ever attracted a true opposite.professions, personalities, etc may vary....but there always has to be certain shared characterisitics that bind us together. Exactly. Someone on the outside might see two opposites, but that's because the things a couple have in common may not be apparent to anyone but themselves. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
c-luv Posted September 8 Report Share Posted September 8 me and my boyfriend are complete opposites....but it works out perfectly...whatever he needs to work on, i know how.....whatever i need to work on he knows how....so its all good....plus we never get boring because we are so different.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starvingartist Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 Originally posted by dgmodel if birds of a feather flock together... and when ppl meet someone new they typically say " wow we have so much in common " and in the securities industry they say you acquire clients that resemble you... then do opposites really attract??? im going to have to go with no... ppl attract a certain demographic or certain type of person because thats how they portray themselves... so if you attract crazy ppl, chances are you are crazy... if you attract guys who only want to fuck you chances are you portray yourself as a girl who only wants to fuck... if you attract guys who are assholes chances are youre a bitch... its a weird thing to fathom, its even weirder to write but i think its true... [/ QUOTE]Actually your insight is quite interesting. However you have drawn two seperate conclusions If I read this correctly. One you attract people like you, and whoever is attracted to you must be a reflection of yourself. Well I think both are debateable especially the latter. For starters I agree with the notion that people are typically attracted to things or people that are like themselves, familiar, etc. On the same note, there exist people who are attracted to things, people, ideas that they do not quite understand. With that said, my conclusions are, one you can attract people who are like you or differ from you. And whoever is attracted to you is not necessarily a reflection of yourself.I would also like to add something from the many replies. Someone in particular mentioned never being with an exact opposite, but in a sense could you ever find an exact duplicate of yourself? I apologize for the length, I have a tendency to get carried away and lost in words. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted September 9 Author Report Share Posted September 9 very valid point... i dont think there is a set rule or protocol for dating, and or ppl you meet... however there seems to be a reason why some relationships last longer than others... and i think those that do last longer are simply because the ppl just have more in common and are similar... i know if I am with a girl who shares similar intrests in what i do, and vice versa we'll have a lot more to do and talk about and etc. then just have sex/fuck/ or make love... who knows... im a lil loopy i am not running on full tank so im not sure if this makes sense... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted September 9 Author Report Share Posted September 9 i think when they started saying opposites attract... quite possibly they were talking about just male/female as in our bodies are opposites... but that now doesnt even hold true with this whole homo-chic thing thats going on... but in any event i have to see, (not saying it doesnt happen) two ppl who are complete opposites have a healthy, and prosperous relationship... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicapples Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 truthfully, i think that saying came when the ideal relationship is male and female. nowadays with all these different aspects or different preference there isnt really a opposite attraction. its all about the flavor you feel every day of the week. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted September 9 Author Report Share Posted September 9 Her boyfriendHe don't know anything about herHe's too stonedHe's too stonedHe's too stonedHe's too stonedHer boyfriendHe don't know anything about herHe's too stonedNintendoI wish that I could make her seeShe's just the flavor of the weekYeah she's the flavor of the weekShe makes me weak... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starvingartist Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 Originally posted by dgmodel i think when they started saying opposites attract... quite possibly they were talking about just male/female as in our bodies are opposites... but that now doesnt even hold true with this whole homo-chic thing thats going on... but in any event i have to see, (not saying it doesnt happen) two ppl who are complete opposites have a healthy, and prosperous relationship... You do realize this is the exact opposite of what you said in the previous post? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starvingartist Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 Actually I misread what you wrote. In any event, just because you have not seen something does not mean it does not exist. Also what do you consider healthy and prosperous? I think see very little relationships whether the people be similar or dissimilar to be healthy, hehe. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetie029 Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 2 People who are complete opposites can't have a GOOD relationship the same way w/ 2 people who are exactly alike....It's about BALANCE......You need a variation of things in common & things NOT in common...Something that's all 1 sided won't work imo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted September 10 Author Report Share Posted September 10 Originally posted by starvingartist Actually I misread what you wrote. In any event, just because you have not seen something does not mean it does not exist. Also what do you consider healthy and prosperous? I think see very little relationships whether the people be similar or dissimilar to be healthy, hehe. IMO what a healthy relationship is and or should be... is something that is too long to get into at 1am and at this moment... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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