tastey Posted June 18 Report Share Posted June 18 this really suckslast night i was out at a party with a friend of mine, who´s also in a relationship right now and we came to the conclusion that we both wish we´d have met our girlfriends later in our lifes. they are near perfect, they both got the looks, are extremely social with contacts everywhere, can party hard but also chill, they are not mentally fucked in the head, the sex is perfect and they enjoy pleasing us... BUT we´re in our early twenties god damnit. i don´t want to settle yet, i feel as if i´d miss out. i turned down 2 girls yesterday. they were hot and i would have loved to get with one of them (or both of course )... but i didn´t want to risk spreading the word... this sucks... i could have lots of fun with other girls... but then again i could waste my dream girl and maybe i´ll never meet anyone like her again... blargh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystify Posted June 18 Report Share Posted June 18 i totally hear what you're saying, but seriously you have to realize how LUCKY you are to have found someone so perfect. you don't get to choose when you meet that right person, so when they come along, hold onto it!!! there are tons of people out there who would love to have what you have!!! don't let it go!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrismakk69 Posted June 18 Report Share Posted June 18 yea dude i gotta agree with her...i tend to meet skanks that i would never wanna spend any time with if the sex werent so good... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted June 18 Report Share Posted June 18 heres my thought....just cuz u found a great person, that everything is awesome with.....how do u know that there isnt a better person out there, that is just better even if its better by a little bit!?!??!!?!?!?!? so basically im asking when do u just settle, or do u never settle and keep looking, even if ur with a great one allready......cuz u just never know!!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
captainpec Posted June 18 Report Share Posted June 18 I just don't understand guys sometimes...If the girl you are with is hot, and the sex is good...Why the hell on earth do you need to go elsewhere?Taking shit for granted will catch up with you in the end... Too much shit going around these days to be bouncing around between hoes... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystify Posted June 18 Report Share Posted June 18 Taking shit for granted will catch up with you in the end... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted June 18 Report Share Posted June 18 OMG who cares how old you are, when you find the right person, then that's all that matters. no one can predict whether theyre 21 or 41...if it fits it fits Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ou812 Posted June 18 Report Share Posted June 18 Well, that's your cross to bear. If you really believe that they are perfect marriage material then go ahead and put on ring on their finger. Put the shit on layaway for a few years. What is there in life you have yet to do, do you need to go out and fuck another 10-20-30 more girls? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheMrs Posted June 18 Report Share Posted June 18 heres my thought....just cuz u found a great person, that everything is awesome with.....how do u know that there isnt a better person out there, that is just better even if its better by a little bit!?!??!!?!?!?!? so basically im asking when do u just settle, or do u never settle and keep looking, even if ur with a great one allready......cuz u just never know!!!!!!!!!!!!!If you're looking, then you're not happy, so why bother. And I mean looking in the sense of looking for a "better" person, not just another whore to fuck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted June 18 Report Share Posted June 18 Dude, fuck that!Don't listen to these girls. Do what I did and get rid of the best thing that's ever happened to you in your life...go out with your boys, bang some hot, cheap sluts who won't mean a damn thing to you. Then, once that novelty wears off, you can be as depressed as me and realize that you fucked up the only thing that was ever good in your life Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ou812 Posted June 18 Report Share Posted June 18 heres my thought....just cuz u found a great person, that everything is awesome with.....how do u know that there isnt a better person out there, that is just better even if its better by a little bit!?!??!!?!?!?!? so basically im asking when do u just settle, or do u never settle and keep looking, even if ur with a great one allready......cuz u just never know!!!!!!!!!!!!!Wow, that sounds kinda funny (also a little disrespectful) coming from a married man.No offense. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted June 18 Report Share Posted June 18 Wow, that sounds kinda funny (also a little disrespectful) coming from a married man.No offense.im not saying this is my situation!!!!!!!! i just wanted to see what is the opinion about it!!!!!!!!! i just wonder about other people, when i hear them say i found the best person....blah, blah. blah..........just a thought that popped into my head......now id like to see a good open discussion on it!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheMrs Posted June 18 Report Share Posted June 18 im not saying this is my situation!!!!!!!! i just wanted to see what is the opinion about it!!!!!!!!! i just wonder about other people, when i hear them say i found the best person....blah, blah. blah..........just a thought that popped into my head......now id like to see a good open discussion on it!!!!!!!!!!!! My retarded husband just failed grammar in school.. and doesn't know that "!!" mean statements and "??" mean questions. In that post above he should have put ?? marks, since they were questions, according to him. funkyfreshdc 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted June 18 Report Share Posted June 18 If you're looking, then you're not happy, so why bother. And I mean looking in the sense of looking for a "better" person, not just another whore to fuck.dont worry honey....this is not our situation in the least!!!!!!!!!!!! ive allready got u...ur all i could ever want!!!!!!!!!! but u know that i just think about stuff all the time!!!!!!!!!! maybe i need to smoke less!!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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mrmatas2277 Posted June 18 Report Share Posted June 18 dont worry honey....this is not our situation in the least!!!!!!!!!!!! ive allready got u...ur all i could ever want!!!!!!!!!! wow ur tone changed really quick Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted June 18 Author Report Share Posted June 18 heres my thought....just cuz u found a great person, that everything is awesome with.....how do u know that there isnt a better person out there, that is just better even if its better by a little bit!?!??!!?!?!?!? so basically im asking when do u just settle, or do u never settle and keep looking, even if ur with a great one allready......cuz u just never know!!!!!!!!!!!!!just out of curiousity, how did you get married with an attitude like that?so if some better girl comes along, you´re gonna dump your wife and kids and go for the new one? lol? why get married in the first place then and are you INSANE to actually think that thought aloud anywhere near where your girl can hear (read) it? back to the topic, let´s say it this way. i´m not being loyal to her because i WANT to. i´m monogamous because we won´t stay together any other way. and THATS what sucks. if she´d be cool with an open relationship (shes not already discussed this) and i could bonk my horns off from time to time with a delicious new girl from time to time, i´d be totally down with staying with this girl forever!but this way, i dunno. i feel i´m missing out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted June 18 Report Share Posted June 18 just out of curiousity, how did you get married with an attitude like that?so if some better girl comes along, you´re gonna dump your wife and kids and go for the new one? lol? why get married in the first place then and are you INSANE to actually think that thought aloud anywhere near where your girl can hear (read) it? back to the topic, let´s say it this way. i´m not being loyal to her because i WANT to. i´m monogamous because we won´t stay together any other way. and THATS what sucks. if she´d be cool with an open relationship (shes not already discussed this) and i could bonk my horns off from time to time with a delicious new girl from time to time, i´d be totally down with staying with this girl forever!but this way, i dunno. i feel i´m missing out.just know this....im alot smarter than u think!!!!!!!!!i have nothing to hide from my wife, which is maybe one of the reasons we have such a great relationship!!!!!!!!!!and thanks for the judgement on me without knowing a shred about me!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted June 18 Author Report Share Posted June 18 just know this....im alot smarter than u think!!!!!!!!! i really hope so man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted June 18 Report Share Posted June 18 wow ur tone changed really quick oh dont get it wrong shes still a pain in the arse....but shes a woman they all r!!!!!!!!!!!hows that for tone!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted June 18 Report Share Posted June 18 back to the topic, let´s say it this way. i´m not being loyal to her because i WANT to. i´m monogamous because we won´t stay together any other way. and THATS what sucks. if she´d be cool with an open relationship (shes not already discussed this) and i could bonk my horns off from time to time with a delicious new girl from time to time, i´d be totally down with staying with this girl forever!but this way, i dunno. i feel i´m missing out.This might sound kinda stupid, but ...why not a threesome?? that way, you get some hot girl, at the same time that you get your girl. at least youre staying faithful to her, and i give you credit because not many guys that feel the way you do would be faithful so to youif she's as good as you say she is, fight these feelings that you have, and look in front of you and realize what you have, before you do something that you'll regret and can never take back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheMrs Posted June 18 Report Share Posted June 18 just out of curiousity, how did you get married with an attitude like that?so if some better girl comes along, you´re gonna dump your wife and kids and go for the new one? lol? why get married in the first place then and are you INSANE to actually think that thought aloud anywhere near where your girl can hear (read) it? back to the topic, let´s say it this way. i´m not being loyal to her because i WANT to. i´m monogamous because we won´t stay together any other way. and THATS what sucks. if she´d be cool with an open relationship (shes not already discussed this) and i could bonk my horns off from time to time with a delicious new girl from time to time, i´d be totally down with staying with this girl forever!but this way, i dunno. i feel i´m missing out.My poor honey, he does think too much, but I think he just came across wrong on that post. He meant it as a question, not about himself (so he says... lol).But you just do what you want T.... I tell Flip all the time, if you really feel like you're missing out, go ahead. You're not stuck with this person unless you want to be. If it's more important to you to go get some, go right ahead, it's your life. Everything has consequences, though.Good luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted June 18 Report Share Posted June 18 just know this....im alot smarter than u think!!!!!!!!!i have nothing to hide from my wife, which is maybe one of the reasons we have such a great relationship!!!!!!!!!!and thanks for the judgement on me without knowing a shred about me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I don't think he was passing judgement on you...you're original statement did sound a little strange coming from a married man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystify Posted June 18 Report Share Posted June 18 Then, once that novelty wears off, you can be as depressed as me and realize that you fucked up the only thing that was ever good in your life Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted June 18 Report Share Posted June 18 Thanks babe...I was waiting for someone to feel bad for me. Ok, I'm gonna leave now for my weekend at the beach where hopefully I can find some whore to take my mind off of it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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