bullseye Posted July 16 Report Share Posted July 16 is it time to panic? do you bring it up in conversation nicely?do you say, i think we should both go on a diet, even if you dont need one urself?do you risk the, "so you think im fat?" comment by saying something?thoughts? Mystify 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i3itch Posted July 16 Report Share Posted July 16 be honest and be nice about it...don't make it sound like it's the end of the world Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted July 16 Report Share Posted July 16 ...perhaps it's time to get an ept.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lafemcaliente Posted July 16 Report Share Posted July 16 i just had this problem, you should suggest you both start working out more, hit the gym, go for runs together. wouldnt hurt, but if you care about someone its hard to just bring it up all blunt like. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mssabina Posted July 16 Report Share Posted July 16 chances are they've noticed it themselves way before you have... pointing it out, even in the nicest way possible, may make them feel worse about it. if they're complaining about the way they look then you should encourage them to eat better & work out. if they don't seem to mind the extra lbs, then it's not really your place to say anything unless their health is in trouble. Mystify, i3itch and Ronin 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i3itch Posted July 16 Report Share Posted July 16 chances are they've noticed it themselves way before you have... pointing it out, even in the nicest way possible, may make them feel worse about it. if they're complaining about the way they look then you should encourage them to eat better & work out. if they don't seem to mind the extra lbs, then it's not really your place to say anything unless their health is in trouble.i think that was the smartest thing i've ever heard this week sabina's answer wins! hands down Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murrrr Posted July 16 Report Share Posted July 16 most women are sensitive when it comes to their weight, i would say almost all......so like sabina said she most likely already knowsi think that was the smartest thing i've ever heard this week sabina's answer wins! hands down Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted July 16 Report Share Posted July 16 i say lead by example......start working out, running, or etc..and show enthusiasm in it, and tell ur sig other that its something, thats making u feel alot better, and that u would like them to get into it so that u may share it together......this is my suggestion!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bullseye Posted July 16 Author Report Share Posted July 16 fyi, this isnt my problem, jus getting opinions. my girl is 105 lbs wet, me, i'm wat i am. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted July 16 Report Share Posted July 16 start going for runs or walks...after a few days, tell your sig other that you don't like working out by yourself and ask them to join you. if you mention it to her that she's gaining weight, expect all hell to break loose Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koky Posted July 16 Report Share Posted July 16 , me, i'm wat i am.are you related to popeye ?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bullseye Posted July 16 Author Report Share Posted July 16 are you related to popeye ?? no, that would be, i am wat i am Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coachjames Posted July 16 Report Share Posted July 16 Well, hopefully you have created a relationship wherein you can be honest with each other. If not, you're screwed, anyway, so don't sweat it. But, if you do have a good, honest relationship, then just broach the subject carefully and talk it out.And by the way, DON'T RUN!!! This is just about the worst thing you can do to your body. You will regret it so much in 10-20 years. Bike or low-impact aerobics, instead. Something like that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tired Posted July 16 Report Share Posted July 16 pull out a .45 and tell her to back away from the cupcake....seriously though, i can't imagine a way to tell her that she needs to loose weight. in past relationships i've tried the lead by example but it didnt work.. i've noticed though.. if ya dump 'em that's usually good for about 15lbs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bullseye Posted July 16 Author Report Share Posted July 16 everyone, this is not my problem, this was a discussion among my friends earlier this morning. but thank you for all the support if i should ever run into this problem. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 16 Report Share Posted July 16 is it time to panic? do you bring it up in conversation nicely?do you say, i think we should both go on a diet, even if you dont need one urself?do you risk the, "so you think im fat?" comment by saying something?thoughts?chubbier? filling out? or getting fat??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coachjames Posted July 16 Report Share Posted July 16 By the way, if you are skimming the board really quick, the subject looks a whole lot like "so you notice ur sig is getting a little chubbie". Kind of a WHOLE different thread. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 16 Report Share Posted July 16 lol i thought the same thing... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Candy Posted July 18 Report Share Posted July 18 pull out a .45 and tell her to back away from the cupcake.... Hmmm can I borrow your .45? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Felix_Leiter Posted July 18 Report Share Posted July 18 everyone, this is not my problem, this was a discussion among my friends earlier this morning. but thank you for all the support if i should ever run into this problem. dude..just be honest with her...im surprised in you though...you seem too nice to let a little weight get in the way of your relationship Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tired Posted July 19 Report Share Posted July 19 Hmmm can I borrow your .45? ouch Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Candy Posted July 19 Report Share Posted July 19 ouch Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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