lollie60 Posted February 9 Report Share Posted February 9 OK here's a problem - like awhile back my mailman asked me out ...left a memo in my mailbox . as soon as he said " I'm not the brightest guy " ...I told him I'm not interested .Well ..EVERYTIME I GO out ...jogging or walking down the street, waiting at the bus station ...if he sees me he pulls up right behind me and says " I just wanted to say 'hi' . Sometimes he follows me in his car or the mailtruck and always pulls up behind me and I REALLY DON'T LIKE THAT ..I know the difference between ..a nice normal friendly 'hi' and a derranged 'hi' ...and he makes me feel uncomfortable Today I was at the bus and he drove by in his mailtruck and his head turned ..I think he was looking my way ...I REALLY DON'T LIKE HIM STARING AT ME.I went inside a bank to hide from him becuz I thought he was gonna drive over to me.Happens ALL THE TIME I'm outside ...the following by car ...the staring ..what should I do ? SHould I tell his supervisor he's making me unconfomtable ?I don't want to go outside at certain times ..becuz he does his route around my house in the morning ...He makes me feel uncomfortable ..and I don't even give a shit about the fact he's pretty decent looking . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iceviper2004 Posted February 9 Report Share Posted February 9 Report him. Plain and simple. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollie60 Posted February 9 Author Report Share Posted February 9 to who ? his supervisor or cops ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladyshady Posted February 9 Report Share Posted February 9 I thought you left Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crowina Posted February 9 Report Share Posted February 9 ..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kontrol Posted February 9 Report Share Posted February 9 so like..youre being stalked by the mailman? how about the grocery guy or the pizza delivery guy? or the cashier at the supermarket? or your neighbors? they stalking you too by being alive>? why dont you shut up.on the other handmy friend works in the mail and he told me once that they change the mailmens routes all the time cuz people seem to hate mailmen so just call the office and theyll change his mail route. its that easy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollie60 Posted February 9 Author Report Share Posted February 9 so messed up if he was some fat bald ugly dude ..I would've snapped at him ..but becuz he's decent looking .. I didn't tell him to fuck off yet .... I don't care anymore ..he's gettin on my nerves I know most girls would like it if some good looking maildude stalked them but I don'tI realized ...that doesn't matter ..stalker is a stalker He just follows me and stares and says 'hi' . wtf ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foxylady69 Posted February 9 Report Share Posted February 9 I agree w/ crowina. First things first...You def. need to tell him to stop. Then u can report him if that doesn't work. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ovrdose Posted February 9 Report Share Posted February 9 haha he actually introduced himself as im not the brightest guy...he might just be a poor loser with a crush, i would def talk to him first and tell him that he's making you uncomfortable and then take things further if necessary. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollie60 Posted February 9 Author Report Share Posted February 9 I asked him " do you like being a mailman" then he says ... " duuh uuhh I wasn't the brightest guy in school" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kfitz73 Posted February 9 Report Share Posted February 9 if he was some fat bald ugly dude ..I would've snapped at him ..but becuz he's decent looking .. I didn't tell him to fuck off yet .... Wow....Just wow... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollie60 Posted February 9 Author Report Share Posted February 9 c'mon most girl do would do that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kfitz73 Posted February 9 Report Share Posted February 9 c'mon most girl do would do thatSo that makes it ok?? FYI, A stalker isn't scary because he/she is ugly. A stalker is scary because of his actions. It doesn't matter if the dude looks like Brad Pitt, if he's scaring you and making you feel uncomfortable, you do something about it immediately... I refuse to believe that "most girls" lack a schred of common sense and would let this slide... tanyalover 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollie60 Posted February 9 Author Report Share Posted February 9 no most girls ...would give the better looking stalker a break I never told him to 'FUCK OFF' but when he follwed me I'd ignore him and stuff Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kfitz73 Posted February 9 Report Share Posted February 9 no most girls ...would give the better looking stalker a break I never told him to 'FUCK OFF' but when he follwed me I'd ignore him and stuffIf you have no intention dating him, why would you give him a break? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollie60 Posted February 9 Author Report Share Posted February 9 break meaning ...most girls would be more polite to the handsome stalker .. like guys are nicer to pretty chics Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted February 9 Report Share Posted February 9 I treat all hot girls like shit to break the norm. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weyes Posted February 9 Report Share Posted February 9 no most girls ...would give the better looking stalker a break I never told him to 'FUCK OFF' but when he follwed me I'd ignore him and stuffthat's absolutely ridiculous .someone i met on the 'net and gave my number to for business reasons (or so i thought) started calling me ALL THE TIME and it got really scary... i never met him in person, but just the constant calling freaked me out to make me never curious to talk to him again. i have no idea what he looks like, and even if i had found out sometime along the line that he was hot, he still would've creeped me out too much to ever want to meet him . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaydup Posted February 9 Report Share Posted February 9 joggingdef a fake post Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foxylady69 Posted February 9 Report Share Posted February 9 I treat all hot girls like shit to break the norm."Gabo: Rebel Without a Clue..." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
detlefschrempf Posted February 9 Report Share Posted February 9 if he was some fat bald ugly dude ..I would've snapped at him ..but becuz he's decent looking .. I didn't tell him to fuck off yet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Felix_Leiter Posted February 9 Report Share Posted February 9 joggingdef a fake post:laugh: she wishes someone would stalk her beat ass Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted February 9 Report Share Posted February 9 "Gabo: Rebel Without a Clue..." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foxylady69 Posted February 9 Report Share Posted February 9 awww, he's being mean to me, that must mean he thinks i'm cute. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MysticRain Posted February 9 Report Share Posted February 9 break meaning ...most girls would be more polite to the handsome stalker .. like guys are nicer to pretty chics This is why I have more guy friends....and I hate it. They're just friends with me in hopes one day the can get in my pants. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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