Guest xfactor834 Posted June 5 Report Share Posted June 5 Ok, I know the obvious answer is 'both', but you can't say that in this survey.Guys and girls, assuming you only had to pick one...Would you rather have a relationship that made you extremely happy, kept your heart smiling, and made you feel like you were on top of the world...way high on your partner's pedestal...Or have a relationship that didn't really mean much except for the fact that in bed, you two were really happy and made each other feel awesome in bed. But outside of sex, conversation was scarce, and your partner's feelings never blossomed in unison with yours...Well? ------------------ Just win baby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dale77 Posted June 5 Report Share Posted June 5 I think I'd have to say emotionally fulfilled. I couldn't be in a relationship with someone who wasn't in tune with me. I think being with someone who makes you feel good about yourself, someone who truly cares about you, someone who likes you for who you are, and someone that you can have a good time with whether you're out at a club or just home sitting in front of the tv. And if you can reciprocate then what else can you ask for? Well, good sex and then things would be perfect! j/kBut if I had to pick one, it would be emotional b/c I don't think good sex necessarily makes for a good relationship.------------------You're only young once Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
navid73 Posted June 5 Report Share Posted June 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sinergygrl Posted June 5 Report Share Posted June 5 Definantly emotionally. I am sure to be physically fulfilled would be okay for a while, but I think I would just feel so empty that it wouldn't really be worth it for me.------------------ "No further evidence is needed to show that "mental illness" is not the name of a biologicalcondition whose nature awaits to be elucidated, but is the name of a concept whose purpose isto obscure the obvious." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peache5030 Posted June 5 Report Share Posted June 5 I would honestly say EMOTIONALLY fulfilled...I feel that sex is not the most important factor in a relationship.but I know when im feeling secure and high on life with my boyfriend the sex is automatically better because I want to share that closeness with him..------------------ I am not afraid of tomorrow. I have seen yesterday and I love today.I dont cry because it ENDED--> I smile because we HAPPENED.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bmitch1114 Posted June 5 Report Share Posted June 5 Emotionally, definitely. To have that close bond with one person is undecribeable, they can be your best friend as well as your significat other. Sex is only a temporary form of gratification, emotional can last so much longer and be so much more rewarding.------------------"Enjoy life. There's plenty of time to be dead." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hroark Posted June 5 Report Share Posted June 5 to write the dissenting opinion, i would say physically. let me say that being emotionally fulfilled is great, but the pain is MUCH worse when it doesn't work out. i'd like to spare myself that pain (last time really sucked in that regard....)cheers! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest xfactor834 Posted June 5 Report Share Posted June 5 Originally posted by hroark:to write the dissenting opinion, i would say physically. let me say that being emotionally fulfilled is great, but the pain is MUCH worse when it doesn't work out. i'd like to spare myself that pain (last time really sucked in that regard....)cheers!That's true, but you can't enter a relationship in fear of it ending...then you'll never take risks and you may be passing up on something wonderful.------------------ Just win baby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aboyfrombklyn Posted June 6 Report Share Posted June 6 Without a doubt, emotionally!!! I've had plenty of sex that didn't mean anything, it felt good, but didn't mean anything. It sucks when you expect to be emotionally fulfilled, but you aren't, but then there have been times where I would just lay there with someone and feel like the happiest guy in the world! Nothing beats that! ------------------ [This message has been edited by aboyfrombklyn (edited 06-05-2001).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glowgirl Posted June 6 Report Share Posted June 6 I would def have to agree and say I would want both!But I have been in a relationship where it was emotional and not very sexual and it was all good I was happy!And then on the other hand I had the sexual relationship totally all sex. and i liked it but it wasnt all that I WANT BOTH!!!!!!!------------------Hi! How ya doing? where ya been, I had thoughts of you all night long. Can't describe what you did, but you got me so!Aolimer: Glowgirl42000Email: Sugar4@earthlink.net Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gastritis Posted June 6 Report Share Posted June 6 yeah, I'd like both also------------------"hey?, It's me?" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted June 6 Report Share Posted June 6 You can't be 100% physically fulfilled unless you are already emotionally fulfilled.------------------ Let me take you on a journey into bliss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest xfactor834 Posted June 6 Report Share Posted June 6 We'd ALL like bothBut...um...The whole point was you had to pick one ------------------ Just win baby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mel-o-d Posted June 6 Report Share Posted June 6 While I agree with hroark that the pain is horrible when it doesn't work out, the memories of good times are worth it. So, definitely, I would rather be emotionally fulfilled.------------------All I've known, all I've done, all I've felt was leading to this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scaredgirl Posted June 6 Report Share Posted June 6 emotionally definantly------------------ Making Love And Having Sex The Biggest Pleasures in This Life. ScaredGirL. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
b-side Posted June 6 Report Share Posted June 6 Looks like you ladies will be needing plenty of Batteries I hate to say it but I always want and need emotional over physical...:sniff : sniff:That's why I just broke up with my Fiance'...(like 2 dayz ago)The sex was great, but other than that.... she was a completely spoiled little bitch who only loved herself. Hey glowgirl... Starcapone... ClubKat.... ImNikki... & LikMyLipz (BTW where has she been?)... I'm Now Available.... ------------------ The DJ From Another Planet ™ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starcapone Posted June 6 Report Share Posted June 6 has anyone actually been in a relationship that was based on sex only and then you realized you really care about the person and that person cares about u, too, but u two both know your relationship can't go any further for whatever reason. go ques. x!! what da fuck to do?? ------------------ 'nuff said Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
divvalicious Posted June 8 Report Share Posted June 8 emotionally ------------------$$~ C.R.E.A.M ~$$ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnnyrevs Posted June 8 Report Share Posted June 8 definately emotionally,can't have a good relationship that's based mostly on sex------------------ and then.......THEY FUCKED ALL NIGHT!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tsul3 Posted June 11 Report Share Posted June 11 emotionally for sure sex is a lot better when you have an emotional connection anyway Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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