reggie123 Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 How do you all feel about when a guy dances with you at a club and gets all up on you and has his penis hard as hell?? Do you girls enjoy that?? or just think it is some horny bastard trying to copp a feel??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bre5379 Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 I hate that. It is such a turn off. I think he is some horny guy who can't control himself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rachel1997 Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 I'm with bre.. get the fuck away from me! What do you guys come to club for? to get a hard on and rub it on girls??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misskittie Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 Plain and simple...I walk away. Thats sooo rude and disgusting!------------------~*~* You.....You gotta gift! ~*~* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reggie123 Posted September 5 Author Report Share Posted September 5 what is you are sort of digging this guy what then??? same response?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bre5379 Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 I would get turned off from that alone. I don't care if the guy is beautiful. He needs to calm down... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ynicholas Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 Hey sometimes I can't help it if a guy gets all excited and stuff by my dancin' moves. If it got to that point though I would definitely take a couple of steps back! ~*Jam*~------------------Chi tace acconsente. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cytherea Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 I agree with everyone else, I cant stand that shit. ------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jenny5150 Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 Originally posted by jamjimvin:...If it got to that point though I would definitely take a couple of steps back! ~*Jam*~No pun intended right!? ha! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackMeOff Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 Originally posted by reggie99:what is you are sort of digging this guy what then??? same response??hey, if you're diggging him then go for it ...obviously you want to ...do you really need to ask other people whether you should do it or not??------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smilepimpette Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 ladies, true dat true dat!! I think that shit is sooooo NASTY. I do what miss kittie said, walk my ass away!------------------~Hatred is the cowards revenge for being intimidated!~})i({ SmilePimpette })i({ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reggie123 Posted September 5 Author Report Share Posted September 5 so if the guy is not hard at all wont you be disappointed?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rachel1997 Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 Originally posted by reggie99:so if the guy is not hard at all wont you be disappointed??no! If you have a good convosation with the guy or you are having fun with the guy the whole night, get her number... save the grind stuff for bed! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bre5379 Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 I won't be disappointed at all!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cathyo Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 First off, I am not saying that I want some guy rubbing his stuff all over me. With that said we do have to consider the physical aspect of it. If you're dancing with a beautiful girl naturally thoughts having to do with things other than dancing might run through your head. It's natural not perverted. Unfortunately, with a guy there's no hiding that excitement. There have been times that I've been excited just thinking about someone but you can't tell when I am. I really don't think they can control it. You can't expect guys you just met to be dancing with you and thinking "I would like to start a long term relationship with this girl". You're having fun at the moment and that can be exciting. I don't think the hard on is gross. I think misconduct later when the music stops is the problem. ------------------A mind that is stretched by a new experience can never go back to it's old dimensions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kramadas Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 Originally posted by cathyo:First off, I am not saying that I want some guy rubbing his stuff all over me. With that said we do have to consider the physical aspect of it. If you're dancing with a beautiful girl naturally thoughts having to do with things other than dancing might run through your head. It's natural not perverted. Unfortunately, with a guy there's no hiding that excitement. There have been times that I've been excited just thinking about someone but you can't tell when I am. I really don't think they can control it. You can't expect guys you just met to be dancing with you and thinking "I would like to start a long term relationship with this girl". You're having fun at the moment and that can be exciting. I don't think the hard on is gross. I think misconduct later when the music stops is the problem. Thank you Cathyo for explaining the fact that its a physical response that is sometimes hard to control. Hell, I've "grind danced" with girls before, not had a hard-on and had the girls look at me in a weird manner. I've ALSO been told by some girls (no kidding) that its a turn-on for them if a guy gets hard. Anyway, I think it all depends on what sort of music you're listening to...ie, if you're in a club with some name DJs, then you shouldn't be grinding in the first place (IMO). If you're in a cheesy meat market place, grinding to some cheesy top 40 tune - don't expect the guy to be there for the music...his first priority is prolly a hook-up and that thought might excite him, leading him to rush some blood to certain body parts!My few cents...------------------I was born in Twilo, I have lived in Twilo, and I shall... (lets not go there)[This message has been edited by raver_mania (edited 09-05-2000).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The MiSSeS Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 I was just wondering... WHY DO GUYS DO THAT... Thats so nasty.... Personally, its a TURN-OFF.. asking again? Why the hell do guys do that? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kramadas Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 Originally posted by The MiSSeS:I was just wondering... WHY DO GUYS DO THAT... Thats so nasty.... Personally, its a TURN-OFF.. asking again? Why the hell do guys do that? Do what?? Get a hard-on?? Ummm...cuz its just a natural response to sexual excitement/stimulation. And if you don't want a guy to get a hard-on then don't grind! You can't expect to grind against a guy and have him stay down all the time.And Rachel1997, no (speaking for myself at least), not all guys want to grind women so they can come. For one thing, grinding is enuf stimulation to maybe get a hard-on, but definitely not to come. It requires a lot more to reach that stage, in which case, its not grinding anymore but total sexual stimulation. Though I also have to say that there are some guys out there that do expect that...IMO, very sexually frustrated guys!------------------I was born in Twilo, I have lived in Twilo, and I shall... (lets not go there) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
john58 Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 So what about the case when the guy is making out with the girl... He's still not supposed to get an erection? Since every girl here feels the need to point out that they would never let a guy within 10 miles of them unless they were madly in love, pretend that the makeout session happens after you have got to know the guy and have been on several dates with him. After dinner you go out dancing, and dance very close and begin making out. At what point would you not mind noticing an erection. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
divalicious Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 have to add my $0.02...this happens quite often... i hate it when i'm dancing away and some guy, who btw has not even bothered to let me lay eyes on him, starts rubbing his penis on my ass! i mean they literally come up from behind and start humping like a puppy in heat!! WHAT THE F**K!!? i get soo pissed that i want to start swinging!! but i demure like the lady that i am and just give them a look that makes them run away with their tail between their legs.on the other hand tho, when i'm in a club with a guy i'm with, there's lots of rubbing going on - and he better have a big 'ol stiffy!!------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
artful Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 I wanna see guys get knocked out by chicks for that shit... haha------The whole club is like MUSIC STOPS OH SHIT!!!! She just layed that guy out!!!---then the DJ spins some Aretha Franklin "R-E-S-P-E-C-T... what it means to me... whick, whick, whicka... R-R-R.... R-E-S... R-E-S..."hehe------------------ <I'm a Fire-starter> --- When the Artful speaks[This message has been edited by artful (edited 09-05-2000).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rachel1997 Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 Originally posted by raver_mania: Do what?? Get a hard-on?? Ummm...cuz its just a natural response to sexual excitement/stimulation. And if you don't want a guy to get a hard-on then don't grind! You can't expect to grind against a guy and have him stay down all the time.And Rachel1997, no (speaking for myself at least), not all guys want to grind women so they can come. For one thing, grinding is enuf stimulation to maybe get a hard-on, but definitely not to come. It requires a lot more to reach that stage, in which case, its not grinding anymore but total sexual stimulation. Though I also have to say that there are some guys out there that do expect that...IMO, very sexually frustrated guys!Usually when guys come up to me, they have the hard on cuz they come up to you and start grinding away on you and you feel it right away... why do they continue grinding and grinding??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rachel1997 Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 Originally posted by cathyo: EEEEEEEWWWWWW! Wouldn't that get messy??LOL!! Get messy in HIS pants.. not on me! It's not you are dancing naked ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starcapone Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 hm. my first response would be ew and walk away, but the more i think about it... it's like you've turned a total stranger on and your fully (sometimes) clothed. so it'd kinda like a compliment. after he's got a hard on then you walk away. hahahaha ~ take a bow ~------------------"I'm like the lord of a fucken dance....i've got moves" harmonie_rose@hotmail.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The MiSSeS Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 quote:--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Originally posted by raver_mania:Do what?? Get a hard-on?? Ummm...cuz its just a natural response to sexual excitement/stimulation. And if you don't want a guy to get a hard-on then don't grind! You can't expect to grind against a guy and have him stay down all the time.And Rachel1997, no (speaking for myself at least), not all guys want to grind women so they can come. For one thing, grinding is enuf stimulation to maybe get a hard-on, but definitely not to come. It requires a lot more to reach that stage, in which case, its not grinding anymore but total sexual stimulation. Though I also have to say that there are some guys out there that do expect that...IMO, very sexually frustrated guys!-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Ok Im with Rach1997 on this one... Why do they have to come and grind?... Whats up with all the grinding?... Dont guys know how to dance in other ways... And Raver Mania.. im not uneducated i know what a hard on is... my question was WHY DO THEY HAVE TO GRIND?... But I guess obviously is to cop a cheap thrill! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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