cazz926 Posted August 21 Report Share Posted August 21 How old are you?HONESTLY>>>------------------Din Da Da Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest genevieve Posted August 21 Report Share Posted August 21 Forget the fingers; go for the hot beef injection!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirdante Posted August 21 Report Share Posted August 21 .[This message has been edited by sirdante (edited 08-29-2000).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirdante Posted August 21 Report Share Posted August 21 [oops double post][This message has been edited by sirdante (edited 08-21-2000).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirdante Posted August 21 Report Share Posted August 21 i'll assume you are serious and need some proven advice:the best way to touch a girl can be summed up in one word: GENTLY!while making out, start touching her down there by GENTLY stroking her inner thigh. lightly touch the pubis area only when you think she's ready for that. if its dry when you get there (try to GENTLY slide your middle finger between the lips), she isn't ready. she could be nervous or slow to relax. simply go back to just making out and try this step again in a few moments. otherwise, carry on:with GENTLE touch, move your middle finger up her lips and towards that nub at the top. you'll probably bring some of that sweet moisture with you. DO NOT SLIDE YOUR ROUGH FINGER(S) ACCROSS THAT NUB. it will be dry and your first encounter with it should not be a rough scraping. simply give one sweet GENTLE caress (a single circular revolution or a slight press) with the moistened tip of your middle finger. if the "nub" area is soft, then she isn't aroused enough. go back to step ONE (the making out, touching the thigh part). otherwise, mr. smoothie, you're on the way...altough that firm little nub may or may not be the actual clitoris (it has a protective hood), thats the target zone. unfortunately, now it gets tricky. you need to caress that area, but not overstimulate it. if you place the heel of your hand on her body and GENTLY press and release the spot with the very tip of your middle finger, you will be stimuliting her the way she probably does when she plays with herself. do this as GENTLY as possible, and since your goal is to please your partner, don't be afraid to ask "does this feel ok?" since she'll answer "yes" either way, the answer you want is a "[breathless] yes" or some such stuff. if you get that on the first try, you're a natural. if not, maybe you've missed the spot (go back a step and try again) or maybe you are not doing it GENTLY enough. there is also the possibility that you need to apply *slightly* more pressure, but this is less likely. also, if your girl is nervous, she may not show how aroused she is really becoming. look for the physical signs, especially the wetness of her slot and the firmness of her clitoris. if you do a bit of vocalizing and moaning yourself she'll likely respond with the same. (please DONT talk crude-- dirty talk is for an occasion other than this-- ok?!?)if you get into the groove with the press-release thing, pressure, motion, and speed can be increased according to her reaction. this will make her happy. unfortunately, to master this requires strict disciple, attention, and *years* of practice on your part. so, newbie, just stick to the basics. the GENTLE press and release is the most foolproof way of touching the clit, but a GENTLE circular motion works well for *some* girls. once you start working her button, don't take your hand away to shove fingers inside her or anything like that. spurning the button is just a bad kind of tease that could get you into big trouble.here's another helpful tip: once she really gets going, lift your hand up and without trying to alter the gentle press-release, use some wrist action. the difference between the way we guys naturally touch a woman and the way she has learned to touch herself involves this slight extra motion.i could go on all day. the female body is truely the most complex and fascinating thing on earth. try what i've said and remember: GENTLY, GENTLY, GENTLY.------------------i love music!------------------i love music! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmikedr Posted August 21 Report Share Posted August 21 that was beautiful reading. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirdante Posted August 21 Report Share Posted August 21 while re-reading my above post, i noticed that i said "if the nub area is soft." well, the nub area is *always* soft. it does however, get erect. unlike a penis, however, it usually requires high arousal to actually get fully erect. notice its maximum hardness when you make her come with your finger. (and you *will* make her come if you use the above techniques, bub). good luck. maybe next time i'll tell you what to do with your TOUNGE! [This message has been edited by sirdante (edited 08-21-2000).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirdante Posted August 21 Report Share Posted August 21 Originally posted by apotheosis:that was beautiful reading.many thanks.------------------i love music! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dlish Posted August 21 Report Share Posted August 21 Very thoughtful advice...I would have made a youngster joke or something. I think you should have given him the tongue advice right away too, then his girl would think he was a god in bed instead of the rookie he obviously is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brandie Posted August 21 Report Share Posted August 21 I woulda made some joke too - damn sirdante, you're like a step-by-step instruction book, tee hee. that was nice of you to offer advice. luv,brandie------------------"And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music."brandie@optonline.net Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackMeOff Posted August 21 Report Share Posted August 21 Originally posted by sirdante:i'll assume you are serious and need some proven advice:the best way to touch a girl can be summed up in one word: GENTLY!while making out, start touching her down there by GENTLY stroking her inner thigh. lightly touch the pubis area only when you think she's ready for that. if its dry when you get there (try to GENTLY slide your middle finger between the lips), she isn't ready. she could be nervous or slow to relax. simply go back to just making out and try this step again in a few moments. otherwise, carry on:with GENTLE touch, move your middle finger up her lips and towards that nub at the top. you'll probably bring some of that sweet moisture with you. DO NOT SLIDE YOUR ROUGH FINGER(S) ACCROSS THAT NUB. it will be dry and your first encounter with it should not be a rough scraping. simply give one sweet GENTLE caress (a single circular revolution or a slight press) with the moistened tip of your middle finger. if the "nub" area is soft, then she isn't aroused enough. go back to step ONE (the making out, touching the thigh part). otherwise, mr. smoothie, you're on the way...altough that firm little nub may or may not be the actual clitoris (it has a protective hood), thats the target zone. unfortunately, now it gets tricky. you need to caress that area, but not overstimulate it. if you place the heel of your hand on her body and GENTLY press and release the spot with the very tip of your middle finger, you will be stimuliting her the way she probably does when she plays with herself. do this as GENTLY as possible, and since your goal is to please your partner, don't be afraid to ask "does this feel ok?" since she'll answer "yes" either way, the answer you want is a "[breathless] yes" or some such stuff. if you get that on the first try, you're a natural. if not, maybe you've missed the spot (go back a step and try again) or maybe you are not doing it GENTLY enough. there is also the possibility that you need to apply *slightly* more pressure, but this is less likely. also, if your girl is nervous, she may not show how aroused she is really becoming. look for the physical signs, especially the wetness of her slot and the firmness of her clitoris. if you do a bit of vocalizing and moaning yourself she'll likely respond with the same. (please DONT talk crude-- dirty talk is for an occasion other than this-- ok?!?)if you get into the groove with the press-release thing, pressure, motion, and speed can be increased according to her reaction. this will make her happy. unfortunately, to master this requires strict disciple, attention, and *years* of practice on your part. so, newbie, just stick to the basics. the GENTLE press and release is the most foolproof way of touching the clit, but a GENTLE circular motion works well for *some* girls. once you start working her button, don't take your hand away to shove fingers inside her or anything like that. spurning the button is just a bad kind of tease that could get you into big trouble.here's another helpful tip: once she really gets going, lift your hand up and without trying to alter the gentle press-release, use some wrist action. the difference between the way we guys naturally touch a woman and the way she has learned to touch herself involves this slight extra motion.i could go on all day. the female body is truely the most complex and fascinating thing on earth. try what i've said and remember: GENTLY, GENTLY, GENTLY.Dr. Judy??------------------...Ph0eniX Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cazz926 Posted August 21 Author Report Share Posted August 21 After reading that, I don;t believe your girl left you, and if I didn;t have a bf,I would pretend I was drunk so you could take advantage of me.------------------Din Da Da Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirdante Posted August 21 Report Share Posted August 21 Originally posted by cazz926:After reading that, I dont believe your girl left you...yeah, she didn't leave me. i had to get rid of her after she started trying to mess around. too bad i'm only good for one thing... and if I didnt have a bf,I would pretend I was drunk so you could take advantage of me....oh wait, i guess its not *so* bad.[This message has been edited by sirdante (edited 08-21-2000).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eggmok Posted August 21 Report Share Posted August 21 when was the last time you went bowling . . .---------------------------------------------Life is too short to be small. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
awgator Posted August 22 Report Share Posted August 22 what's the best way to finger a girl?, how many fingers, methods, and where's the clitoris located in relation to the vagina openingi met this girl and i wanna make sure i'm doing everything right to make her enjoy it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackMeOff Posted August 22 Report Share Posted August 22 Originally posted by awgator:what's the best way to finger a girl?, how many fingers, methods, and where's the clitoris located in relation to the vagina openingi met this girl and i wanna make sure i'm doing everything right to make her enjoy itare you for real?------------------...Ph0eniX Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirdante Posted August 22 Report Share Posted August 22 Originally posted by eggmok:when was the last time you went bowling . . .Huh? ------------------i love music! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carsonfever Posted August 24 Report Share Posted August 24 forget fingers...either lick it or stick it...lol...lick first though...mike.------------------If you haven't danced yet...what the fuck did you come for??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirdante Posted August 24 Report Share Posted August 24 Originally posted by ibelong2thenight:hey- if you got time and really want to- write up a guide to going down on a girl- id love to print it out and give it to my boyfriend... hed prolly hit the roof but he deserves payback i'd be happy to write it up for you, but darling, pls don't waste your time on that bf of yours. if he's inadaquate, he doesn't deserve you! besides, i just broke up with my girlfriend so i'll need some more practice first Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rachel1997 Posted August 24 Report Share Posted August 24 Originally posted by awgator:what's the best way to finger a girl?, how many fingers, methods, and where's the clitoris located in relation to the vagina openingi met this girl and i wanna make sure i'm doing everything right to make her enjoy itSomebody is obviously very YOUNg and no experiance! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ibelong2thenight Posted August 25 Report Share Posted August 25 hey- if you got time and really want to- write up a guide to going down on a girl- id love to print it out and give it to my boyfriend... hed prolly hit the roof but he deserves payback Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alrousasa Posted September 6 Report Share Posted September 6 That was deep, man really!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glowgirl Posted September 6 Report Share Posted September 6 good shit!------------------Good time had by all!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirdante Posted September 25 Report Share Posted September 25 thank you.thank you.*shameless bump*------------------i love music! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexxxi Posted September 25 Report Share Posted September 25 Originally posted by guido215:forget fingers...either lick it or stick it...lol...lick first though...mike.I have to agree with the lick'n'stick theory. Forget the fingers, they don't work as well as a nice licking or a hard sticking Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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