divalicious Posted March 19 Report Share Posted March 19 You don't get that sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach when he calls you, all sad, because his new girlfriend (with whom he says he's in love) decides she "needs space"...------------------Is it Friday yet? Peace Love Happiness y'all DivaliciousNYC@aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest crystalmethodny Posted March 19 Report Share Posted March 19 F him.And her. ------------------"Can you feel it?""We're going to build things up slowly... are you with me? Here we go."CrystalMethodNYC@aol.comwww.extremegroove.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
back2basics- Posted March 19 Report Share Posted March 19 Originally posted by divalicious:You don't get that sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach when he calls you, all sad, because his new girlfriend (with whom he says he's in love) decides she "needs space"...What goes around comes around, looks like it has. ------------------I want to go out blazing..not fade away.Trust in the currency of relationships, it's hard to earn but easy to loose - back2basics Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shugabooga Posted March 19 Report Share Posted March 19 call the wambulance!! or better yet, send him a box of Pampers & a pacifier!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sneha Posted March 19 Report Share Posted March 19 Originally posted by divalicious:You don't get that sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach when he calls you, all sad, because his new girlfriend (with whom he says he's in love) decides she "needs space"...Hey babe! sorry I missed your call...left work early on friday , anyways how was your weekend???? mine was ok, didn't do anything in fact..------------------Slowly..slowly..act like you know me... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
divalicious Posted March 19 Author Report Share Posted March 19 You know guys... I don't harbor any negative feelings toward him. I genuinely felt bad for the guy when he told me that. I did inform him though, that he was not really in love with this girl, and in time he would relize this. After me, he jumped right into a relationship with someone else, whom he also "loved", then, while still seeing this chick, he fell in with his current "love". I told him that since he has not even given himself a chance to heal from the breakup of our 5 year relationship, he is probably just transferring the feelings he is still harboring for me onto these other girls. And he will never fully heal, if he doesn't spend some time alone... The poor thing, he seemed to feel even worse after that, because he knows that I'm right. I think it also stung him a bit, that I wasn't at all bothered by his sadness over another woman, and I even willing to offer advice to him. But that is what friends are for... ------------------Is it Friday yet? Peace Love Happiness y'all DivaliciousNYC@aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littled Posted March 19 Report Share Posted March 19 Originally posted by crystalmethodny:F him.And her. LITERALLY?steve... i was wondering if you could be more specific... cause as ...someone who goes both ways... hmmm... ------------------~ you see house is a feeling ~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousss Posted March 19 Report Share Posted March 19 Originally posted by divalicious:I told him that since he has not even given himself a chance to heal from the breakup of our 5 year relationship, he is probably just transferring the feelings he is still harboring for me onto these other girls. And he will never fully heal, if he doesn't spend some time alone.True in 99% of the cases.. It's hard to face reality and the pain of a breakup after such a long time. So it's only natural to want to keep that feeling alive with whoever.. Sooner or later he'll have to face it but later is usually a lot easier. I just hope the girl realizes that the guy's feelings are not meant for her, and doesn't take all of it to heart.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jewel44317 Posted March 19 Report Share Posted March 19 Originally posted by divalicious:I told him that since he has not even given himself a chance to heal from the breakup of our 5 year relationship, he is probably just transferring the feelings he is still harboring for me onto these other girls. And he will never fully heal, if he doesn't spend some time alone... Very smart, chica. Rebounds are just as detrimental to a person's mental/emotional health as staying in an unhappy relationship. Of course, the feelings of loneliness after having someone for so long can be terribly painful, so it's very easy to understand how/why it happens. ------------------"Spontaneity is the key to spice in life" "Music makes the world go 'round...so keep it spinnin!"AIM: Jewel44317 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nickijay Posted March 20 Report Share Posted March 20 Originally posted by back2basics-: What goes around comes around, looks like it has. yes, i am a firm believer in this for sure. and also "what's meant to be will be"....------------------ Boink like a bunny with spring fever!!!uknj@aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nickijay Posted March 20 Report Share Posted March 20 oh, and moni san, was't he just sobbing over you like a month or so ago??? he's flighty and he did you a HUGE favor, i'd say. ------------------ Boink like a bunny with spring fever!!!uknj@aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djustinh Posted March 20 Report Share Posted March 20 damn, relationships are harsh. shit, i wish i had a girl who would just loook me in the eyes, and tell me 110% with honesty that they love me. it will come ------------------a mind stretched by new dimensions can never be the same againYour laughing at me cause I am different? Shit, im laughing at you cause your all the fucking same! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twilogoddess Posted March 20 Report Share Posted March 20 U know ur over ex, when u can't remember his # & it takes u a few minutes to remember his last name. ------------------Madness, Power, Domination!- Way Out WestAIM: Trancegoddess21 [This message has been edited by twilogoddess (edited 03-19-2001).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glowball Posted March 20 Report Share Posted March 20 What goes Around , Comes around , it really seems like you had something to do with it ..------------------ -------------------------E-mail martin_izzo@netzero.net page 1917-243-0215AIM:GLowbali <--- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
risa06 Posted March 20 Report Share Posted March 20 Originally posted by divalicious:You don't get that sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach when he calls you, all sad, because his new girlfriend (with whom he says he's in love) decides she "needs space"...you r over him...you know that see you Saturday Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nickijay Posted March 20 Report Share Posted March 20 Originally posted by glowball:What goes Around , Comes around , it really seems like you had something to do with it ..what are you implying by that? do you know what happened??? no, i don't think so....but let me tell you this - this guy lost one of the best things that ever happened to him and ya know what? he knows it and regrets it......and it was his loss, def. not hers!! (sorry mo, but i had to....)------------------ Boink like a bunny with spring fever!!!uknj@aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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