SPYGIRL3 Posted December 9 Author Report Share Posted December 9 Originally posted by gabo I am just gonna have me a little cat fight with Spygirl:tongue: (there are you happy!!) Yes I am:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
t0nythelover Posted December 10 Report Share Posted December 10 beauty is skin deep but ugly is to the bone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glowgirl Posted December 10 Report Share Posted December 10 IMO I think that someone may not be your type looks wise. But it may come a time that there personality is great and you really get to know them and eventually there is an attraction! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted December 10 Report Share Posted December 10 Yes, it's all about confidence. Which is entirely different from being conceited. A self-confident person will carry themselves differently, and project a different image than someone who thinks poorly of themself, walks around facing the ground, avoids eye contact... Just like a truly good-looking person who is all stuck up on themself is unattractive, so is a beautiful person who has a low self-image. Imagine a super-model who wouldn't shut up about how big her thighs are, how she can't stand her nose, blah blah blah. After a while it would be a total turn-off no matter how good she looked at first. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crashedfx Posted December 10 Report Share Posted December 10 Looks: %30-%40Mind: %70-%60Or jes plain damn %50-%50.I mean you gotta have both, missing too much of either one, wont get u far. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siceone Posted December 10 Report Share Posted December 10 Honestly I think that maybe a small percentage of guys actually "look good" straight out of the box I think the rest of us benefit alot more from grooming clothes and just the general way we carry ourselves. girl have it alot tougher than guys do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollib Posted December 10 Report Share Posted December 10 Originally posted by dgmodel and ppl who have popularity complexes, like have to be center of attn. all the timeI have a few friends like this and it's so annoying. There is nothing worse then trying to be the center of attention. Although one time a guy said to one of them, you know, if you didnt try to be all that and get all the attention, then you would be all that. Of course she got mad and stormed out!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocketfuel76 Posted December 10 Report Share Posted December 10 Originally posted by lollib I have a few friends like this and it's so annoying. There is nothing worse then trying to be the center of attention. Although one time a guy said to one of them, you know, if you didnt try to be all that and get all the attention, then you would be all that. Of course she got mad and stormed out!!! someone I know please let me in on this....I think its all about personality,and how you carry yourself, if you think you are then you must be, and others will pick that up!! I like looks don't get me wrong, but I also need someone with a personality, thats the most important thing to me...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted December 10 Author Report Share Posted December 10 Originally posted by lollib I have a few friends like this and it's so annoying. There is nothing worse then trying to be the center of attention. Although one time a guy said to one of them, you know, if you didnt try to be all that and get all the attention, then you would be all that. Of course she got mad and stormed out!!! Now what about the people who don't try ans be the center of attention, but always wind up being it..... If someone goes outta their way to try and make themselves the center, yes it is a turn off. I thinkit's more attractive when someone is very pretty, handsome, or what ever, and they don't think so. Their reacions are geniune and not about all the hot air..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barvybe Posted December 10 Report Share Posted December 10 Hi kids!ummm....well, i thinkConfidence: all has to do with how u feel about urself. sure, how others make u feel helps with this, but it shouldn't matter all that much. if u'r confident u tend to project calmness and something that makes people want to be near u whether u'r happy or sad or what have u.Good looks: well, grooming is important, but people are naturally attractive to you or they aren't, and this can be different for each of us. confidence helps bring out the attractiveness, but an unattractive person who's confident and other things becomes that really cool person u know, u love to hang with, etc.becoming better looking: its definitely true that the more u like someone's personality, the more attractive they become cause that beauty starts to be more than skin deep. its one of the signs of a good relationship.Conceitedness: SUCKS! and yeah, its not the same as confidence. Confidence has nothing to do with how u treat urself or what u think u deserve....SPYGIRL: what made u ask this? trying to figure someone out? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollib Posted December 11 Report Share Posted December 11 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 Now what about the people who don't try ans be the center of attention, but always wind up being itNo, my friend tired to be the center of attention and people knew it. I dont think there is anything wrong when someone just happens to be the center of attention without trying. I think when a person strives for all the attention, they have low self-esteem and this helps them to feel better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluebetty Posted December 11 Report Share Posted December 11 Originally posted by gabo I am gonna kick the crap out of you!! who wants to watch?? or place bets I've got 10$ on spygirl. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jessica2394 Posted December 11 Report Share Posted December 11 I def. feel that as far as confidence goes...if someone is attractive but not anything amazing and they have a very confident (not cocky) attitude, then people will view them as more attractive then they would if they didnt have that confidence. I just feel that how you carry yourself matters a lot in judging someones "beauty". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted December 11 Author Report Share Posted December 11 Originally posted by bluebetty I've got 10$ on spygirl. Yeah, I am pretty confident I can kick Gabo's ass, well, if he had one that is!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted December 11 Author Report Share Posted December 11 Originally posted by lollib No, my friend tired to be the center of attention and people knew it. I dont think there is anything wrong when someone just happens to be the center of attention without trying. I think when a person strives for all the attention, they have low self-esteem and this helps them to feel better. Gotcha... I agree, people who stive to make a scene have a few issues....It's one thing when youare kidding around, but it's a whole other thing when that 's all you know how to do...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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