klohe Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 K....I'm the type of girlie that when I see some beef that I want...I totally have no shame goin up to him, chattin, and pickin his fine ass up...some girls I know would NEVER go there...but hey, u never know what he'll say...most men say YES bc they're so flattered....so...GUYS:Is it a turn on to be picked up by a chick? GIRLS: Do u do this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimk29 Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 I love when a girl takes the initiative... there is something extra sexy about a woman who knows what she wants and does what she has to do to get it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
belladiva26 Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 yes, i made the first move on my current boyfriend Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barvybe Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 Yes, its great when women approach me.And cause guys are used to doing the approaching, i think we treat women pretty well when they come up to us. Like, i'm never rude to a girl no matter how uninterested or unattractive i may find her. I've actually ended up with some great friends this way too.It's very flattering. It takes a lot of guts to approach someone and i totally appreciate it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingartur Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 Def. its a turn on when a girl is willing to pick up a guy and not be shy about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 Come on, what guy wouldn't like it? I've taken the initiative in the past, if I was already friends with the guy... but I'm too shy to go up to a total stranger... Well... unless certain chemicals are involved... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 I've done it, but regretted it a few times. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 Well, I am a girl with initiative. I think I have asked this question before. I think being too agressive scares them.. But I like being forward, and if they can't handle it and get intimidated...eh well, move on there are many other sausage out there.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
echostar Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 yeah its definitely cool by me cuz anyone that knows me knows im not typically a person to take the initiative Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acura Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 I love when a girl goes after what she wants, it makes it easier on me cause i am not a very forward person.Also you don't have to waste time wondering if the girl is diggin u or not Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdancer Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 Im shy, I like getting picked up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
klohe Posted January 8 Author Report Share Posted January 8 Originally posted by belladiva26 yes, i made the first move on my current boyfriend LOLZ...I've done the same with my past three bf's...famous line: "Hi, I'm Renee...what's ur name?" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magilicuti Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 finally some girls taking the work and pressure of us guys Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 Originally posted by rdancer Im shy, I like getting picked up I''ll pick ur ass up...magilicuti- so many more girls now adays cant wait for guys to make a move. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chynado11 Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 Originally posted by fierydesire Well, I am a girl with initiative. I think I have asked this question before. I think being too agressive scares them.. But I like being forward, and if they can't handle it and get intimidated...eh well, move on there are many other sausage out there.. well said...hahahaa...ive been in the game for a long time..i know what i want by now and i often times know what the guys next move is ..it bores me sometimes:zzz:... so thats why i go and scout enough of the bullshit cd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
az-tec Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 I love when girls do this....(yes I too can be shy at times)but sometimes its the same as when a guy picks up the girl...if he aint interested.....and the girl keeps on pursuing..that gets really annoying....oh well..in general its a good thing though..shows the girl knows what she wants and goes after it.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vicman Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 i luv it when girls take the initiative...sorta turns me on a bit..dunno but my past gf have always been on the conservative, traditional role, so i guess a girl that makes the first move would definitely be a big turn on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dcsglow Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 Originally posted by klohe K....I'm the type of girlie that when I see some beef that I want...I totally have no shame goin up to him, chattin, and pickin his fine ass up...some girls I know would NEVER go there...but hey, u never know what he'll say...most men say YES bc they're so flattered....so...GUYS:Is it a turn on to be picked up by a chick? GIRLS: Do u do this? TURN ON LIKE SHIT!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 Originally posted by az-tec I love when girls do this....(yes I too can be shy at times)but sometimes its the same as when a guy picks up the girl...if he aint interested.....and the girl keeps on pursuing..that gets really annoying....oh well..in general its a good thing though..shows the girl knows what she wants and goes after it.... you shy..good thing u said that you too can be.Anyway I agree, when a girl/guy keeps pushing it is so freakin annoying. I mean a think I can sense when I guy is not interested... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
az-tec Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 Originally posted by fierydesire you shy..good thing u said that you too can be.just curious about what that means???ill admit IM pretty outgoing, but yes I do get shy every once in a while....sum girlz think its cute tho..*i think*lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonStephen Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 I love it when the female takes the initiative.Anyone who knows me knows that I'm outgoing and all, but if I don't know a girl and I have to try to pick her up, I'm very shy and I suck at it. I hate pick up lines. Thats why I love it when I get hit on by women, I'm very receptive and even if I'm not interested, I'll talk to them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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