i lived in various areas in the South and i can speak for experience. the southerners are more laid back in traditional ways. ny has much more sex shops, prostitutes, gays, fetish stuff etc, but frankly it's much harder to meet good sex partners in big cities... in the south one-night-stands are very common.. and there are many bored rebellious white girls trying to fight boredom by having sex.. i must admit i took advantage of these girls but hey it was mutually beneficial. when it comes to the good ol' straight sex people in the south or midwest seem to be more sexually active.