True, but if a breakup occured once, it can happen again. I sometimes think about my ex, but there's a reason we broke up, and that will always be something between us if we ever did get back. Sure, they probably made a mistake, decided to experience life before settling down, had to "find themselves", etc...but I believe that if they loved you, they wouldn't leave you to bang others and come back and be like, "ok, I'm ready", is so many words. I loved, I learned, I moved on. They were in my life for a reason. And I thank them for that.