Believe me I'm not defending his actions.... but I'm sure his friends say the same things about you.... The company he keeps is usually representative of his NORMAL behaviour..... or at least what he enjoys.... Not sure how long you've been together but, you're probably learning a little something about him.... Bet suggestion, is not to dwell on it, focus on the positive and see if he can show that quality when he's alone. Remember most people act differently whith friends than lovers. Another reason I don't Fuck with MOST PEOPLE Hope this helps, DOC~B "Serving ALL of your psychosexual needs since 1980"