i totally feel your pain babydoll! me and my ex-the piece of shit that he is-were going through the same dilema.. i would NEVER cheat on "my guy" and i wouldnt do anything to basically disrespect our realationship.. but when i was with my girlfriends i felt FREE.. granted i did-indeed- flirt and shake ma bootay all nite long.. but i wouldnt do anything that would sting my conscience in the morning.. MORALS.. cant live with em'.. cant live without em' But HONESTLY-- just bring him.. let him see how you hang before he goes loony and starts to stalk your ass... trust me.. its happened to me before... ------------------ Are those your eyeballs?......because i found them in my cleavage