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are you serious? why the hell not ?

ahem...PUBES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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do i hear wedding bells ?

i can only think of a few places where kisses are NOT so good .

where are the gay boys to offer some insight? i'd ask my best gay friend, but he's a top :laugh: !!!

you mean, like rick fox ?

i do have nice shoulders , but i never catch guys staring at those .

i think this ties perfectly into what joeg was saying.the moon tribe parties are just thrown by a group of people, not a bunch of promoters who are trying to further people's careers (be it the djs' or the promoters'). the goal of those parties, simply put, is to throw a party for the enjoyment of all involved. and because these parties are only known to a limited group of people, the types that just go to parties to get drugged out of their minds don't hear about them. but i'm not trying to label things in my posts. i'm just sharing my experiences involving clubs and raves, and they've had sharp contrasts.

i hate it when prices go up in a flash like that !!! it's ridiculously wack . man, do i WISH i had a hookup at spundae ...

one really oughtn't be angry at someone else for forgetting something (within reason ); after all, the person didn't choose to forget to give you your cd back on time or call you before s/he left. reminding people is a great way to make sure that important things aren't forgotten. tune in tomorrow.

well, kittn, i can't help you with your underage friend, but you MUST go to spundae. i mostly go to spundae, red, and giant and liquified's events, and i have to say that spundae is my very favorite place. the vibe is unmatched anywhere i've ever been; it's incredibly friendly, unsuperficial, and just plain fun. everyone's there to have fun, whether that means chilling out on the big-ass patio to sit at tables and eat or just stand around and smoke, or to dance your ass off at the never oversold, but always full dancefloor. and there are great djs there, consistently. you simply can't dismiss l.a. nightlife - or even judge it at all - without going to spundae .

ooo - i hope there'll be something dope ...

seriously, this was not racy, not even an interesting tank. i just threw this on 'cause it's easy and i didn't have to think about matching a shirt with my skirt. it's summer, it's hot, i don't need this happening all season .disregard gisele's "come hither" look and the fact that she's not wearing anything on her bottom half but undies, and this is all i was putting out there: i mean, really. no big whoop.

i'm not necessarily only talking about massives, but yes, definitely not underground raves.in nyc, the clubs i went to were full of "who's spinning?" people, but i only went to clubs there twice. the ravers there did know what was up. out here, though, it's almost always the opposite. i've never seen dj worshippers like many of the people in the clubs and zombies wandering aimlessly like so many of these ravers.

i mostly went to raves in nyc, and there they check ids. i guess i should've said nyc and not generalized "east coast" ; i've been to a couple elsewhere in the east (nj, montreal) but i honestly don't remember if they were 18+ or not.but i felt i had to change from a rave attendee to a club attendee when i moved out to l.a., simply because the majority (though not the whole) of the rave crowd out here is not at the parties for the music. i went to the last "nocturnal wonderland" ever held; it was the last because 2 kids died that night and one died after going missing for a week. people have died a couple of times in the history of clubs, i'll grant, but it's happened at raves a heartbrakingly large amount of times, and i can't stand to be around that anymore .

i'm always lookin' good .

so not true .

i used to have a scene in my head - the first one in a movie. george michael's "freedom '92 (i think '92)" plays while the opening credits roll. the camera exits a subway station (the one near my work, at the time), and as soon as the camera passes into the full light of day, a particular part comes on -(it's the section of the song where he holds "do not make the maaaaaaaaaannnnnn," the word "man" being held for 8 1/2 counts) sort of an explosion along with the light. the camera keeps moving, the song and credits keep playing, and it isn't until we're somewhere down the block that the song starts skipping - then the camera turns to see me, smacking my discman, on my way somewhere.

reminds me of a quote from my friend joey:"just 'cause i take it up the ass and suck dick, it doesn't mean i'm gay !!!"

today there was some serious flirtation from a guy whose eyes were obviously flitting constantly from my eyes to my boobs, and some full-strength "not taking no for an answer" hitting-on from another guy. all i have to do is wear a spaghetti-strapped tank top that can't help but show cleavage - even though it's not a v-neck or low-cut, really - and suddenly men are interested in talking to me and asking for my number. do these guys think i don't see them looking at my tits? i understand that the first thing that draws people to others is physical attraction; that's natural and totally makes sense. it's not shallow to be attracted to someone else because s/he appeals to you for some reason or another; in many respects, you don't have control over who it is you're drawn to. but i see you looking at 'em, and that's just rude. if you must look, look when i'm far away, not when we're having a conversation and we're a few feet apart. [stare at my ass instead, or something ; sometimes i notice that and sometimes i don't, as my back is to you.] have a little respect.

questions aren't dumb; it's answers that are dumb. as they say on sesame street, "asking questions is a good way to find out something ."