i knew it.. from the way u decribed her and the sittuation, i was like "waait a minute, this whole thing sounds too familiar...." but trust me, this girls a hopeless case... i too have tried, but it jus doesnt work... if u knew about her past relationships, u probably wouldnt even bother. shes the type that has to realize it on her own... sooner or later she'll become fed up with being treated like shit.. even though shes smart, she got a whole lot of growing up to do. remember man, shes a youngin "wuu wuuuu!" oh and TASTEY... i dont think this whole being an asshole thing can work on all women. remember, it could always backfire... she could really be hurt by you, and end up going with another guy for comfort... and plus i dont think it works too well with long term relationships...