never afraid to speak to a woman. Why should you be either they are interested, not interested and say it nicely , or they get an attitude and show you just why they are alone. the only time i wont is if i check someone out and wait more than a minute or two to aproach them. then its kinda too late they can smell fear and its over. i think if women are interested they should approach a guy let them see what we have gone through our whole lives. Let themhave all the wondering and crap run through their head.