NO, NO, NO, NO, NO!!!!!!!!!!!!! First off, i commend you for being able to stay a full 8 months with a girl that you have no feelings for. That is an accomplishment in & of itself. Now, here is what you do. She is very hot in your words, committed to you, does anything you want sexually, is fine with you calling her or coming over at 4 am..... Keep doing what you are doing. Give a little & take allot. Be nice enough to her to keep her around. Dont be too mean to her, because i think that will make her like you more (she has serious self esteem issues) & is drawn to guys that shit on her (not literally, but who knows) Have some fun with it. Try for a 3some, try & use her to swing, try to get her to fuck some of your friends.. The possiblities are endless when you have a hot girl that you are not attached to at all. I used to keep A) 1 serious girlfriend for the "boyfreind/girlfreind" type activities, 1 steady side girl for "fun" & C) 1 worthless whore for "degrading" type stuff & other manly pleasures. Now, if you dont have the aforementioned A in the equation, then you can hold onto B & C while you "shop" around! Now, happy new year & happy "Shopping"! Thanks,