tommyarmani

You know your stuff & the next time you make a statment into a question, i will sick bullseye onto you.

Deko & then we need to do afterhours somewhere, but its open for debate. thanks,

Aries/italian, but i dont look too italian, so i think my mom cheated.

Christian ludwig, aka chris paciello

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I was once cheated on by a woman, so now i hate all woman. does that make sense? NO, it makes me irrational, illogical & ignorant. Soooo, your logic that being raped by a black man, will now make you hate black people is a bit off, but i can understand how an uneducated, backwards country girl may used twisted logic such as that. Now, regarding other parts of your post. Racism & hateful words transcend far beyond slavery. You are correct, slavery has not been around in quite some time, but does that man that racism has also not been around for quite some time? Of course not... You need to look into what is called "Systemic racism"& you shall see my points. Bottom line, that is a hateful & ignorant term. The word is a hateful term used in that context, so the notion that she did not intend for it be construed as negative, has no bearing at all. The word is what it is, regardless of how you intended it to be used. Now, we all know that certain black people are what we can call "whistle blowers" aka Al sharpton, who claims that any & everything has racial overtones. I do not think this is the case with Jacquese. I think he may be sensitive (BTW, that quality is an individual quality, not a black quality), but who are we to tell him how to react when a hateful term is used in his presence??

I was out having a few t0o many drinks & was acting quite obnoxious. I accidentally bumped into some fat girl & made her spill her drink on her. I said in a half ass way "IM SORRY" she snapped back "Im sorry?? is that it??" I looked her up & down & said "Oh im sorry....YA FAT FUCK!" :laugh: the next day i felt guilty, but quickly got over it.

Now, back to the topic..... Asian massage parlors :drool:

As a young Boy growing up, My dad always would say, "Tommy, without finance, you cant have Romance" as he handed me a fistful of $20's & told me to go get laid. But perhaps he was equating sex & romance as the same thing, which they clearly are not? :confused: :laugh:

PS, i actually do believe in fate--i just like to argue, play devils advocate & see how one can handle thier opinions & argue em.

I think we need to do more than simply define the word "fate". I need an operation definition & we have to address how the term ties into the grand scheme of things. Also, i think any discussion on fate, we must also discuss "coincidence" "Destiny is an invention of the cowardly and the resigned. What people commonly call fate is mostly their own stupidity. Whatever limits us we call Fate. " "Our situation on this earth seems strange. Every one of us appears here involuntary and uninvited for a short stay, without knowing the whys and the wherefore. In our daily lives we only feel that man is here for the sake of others, for those whom we love and for many other beings whose fate is connected with our own. " I intended a different context of the term "fate" I meant that allot of people think they are destined for something, but i believe you can create your own destiny or fate based on choices. that being said, other factors like accidents, natural disasters, even GOD for those that want to bring the spiritual aspect into it can come into play. I dont mean any type of disrespect, only to banter.

Everyone girl that i have ever had as a "booty call" or "side dish" as i call them has wound up getting attached to me. I have never had a relationship where both people were fine with "sex only". Someone has always wanted to escalate it into something more & the more i have resisted, it seems the more they wanted to make something out of nothing. This is just my experience, but i sense you already are attached or questioning somewhat that you may have grown attached to NotallThere after he was designated as "booty call" only.

I also think in the dinosaour example, you are using the term "fate" incorreclty. Im not trying to be wise, just trying to understand where you are coming from so i can better understand your viewpoint.

To err is human, to forgive is divine. Why are you all so hard on your men? what is the big deal, one little mistake at a bachelor party??? Dont sweat the small stuff...... GeeZ

Exactly my point, "bad" boob jobs look bad.

"Bad" implant jobs, implants that are far too big for the girls frame, etc. These are the type of implant jobs that look bad. If you dont go too big, find a good dr., stay within your frame size, your implants will only enhance the way you look. You should aim to have a chest that compliments, not dominates your physique. That being said, I prefer fake boobs over real ones. They look much better. Key word is "prefer". Last time someone tried to forcefeed me into accepting thier "preference" as the Norm was GMCCOOKNY casting his idealistic viewpoints onto us all.

I believe in the concept of free will. :laugh: :laugh:

I prefer a simplistic point of view. There is no such thing as fate. There's what you do & what you don't.

Weyes, its all about the vibe you and your friend put out. Although, I think it would be a disservice to quickly dismiss all members of the opposite sex as a "couple", it is often done by others. My girlfriend & I always go out as a "couple" yet I find it easier to hook up with other girls when she is around, so I don't think you should have a big problem. Other factors come into play, such as venue. IE, I find when it is the type of venue that caters to the drug induced sub culture, people are less inhibited & wouldn't follow any cultural "norm" others would follow (such as not talking to you because you are with a guy) just keep on keepin'

as bullseye would say ":drool: "

Bullseye, you are such a hog! NO, you cant have all the girls to youself--although im sure that would be nothing new to you! :eek:

generally speaking, my number one turn offs is INSECURITY which will cause a downward trickle effect of a whole host of other problems. On a less serious note & more specifically, cigarette smoke is a complete turn off. I can not overlook the olfactory displeasure derived from being in the company of a smoker. Major turn offs: bad skin, bad hair, with split ends, overdried, frizzy in an unhealthy way poorly groomed hands & feet bad teeth obesity Turn ons implants nice ass nice stomach beautiful face nice body sense of humor intelligence outgoing sexually uninhibited must eat eass

Honestly, what is up with trishelle's new attitude. she is no longer laid back & quiet. she had no problem talking shit to tracey!